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Mumsnet Discussions: Adoptions : Can you get adoption cards? (16 messages)
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Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By itati on Sat 05-Jul-08 19:03:32
Like new baby but welcome to the family to the child and congratulations? (other word maybe) to the parents?
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Yorkiegirl on Sat 05-Jul-08 19:05:08
you probably can in the big card shops
not seen them in smaller ones
the other option is to have one handmade. Lots of us on MN make cards.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By bran on Sat 05-Jul-08 19:06:36
You can buy them from Adoption UK but I don't think it's necessary really. We got lots of 'Congratulations' cards and a few 'it's a boy/baby boy' cards when we got ds and we were thrilled to get them.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Niecie on Sat 05-Jul-08 19:09:22
I got one for my BIL and his wife from the local card shop.

Difficulty is knowing when to send it for me - when the children arrive or when the adoption is finalised which could be many months down the line.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By lucicle on Sat 05-Jul-08 19:13:37
Make your own! I bet the family would be delighted.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By bran on Sat 05-Jul-08 19:15:58
Niecie, if you're only sending one then do it when the children arrive. Otherwise send a card for both stages, it could be up to a year between the children being placed and the adoption being finalised and that would be a long time to wait to congratulate them.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Califrau on Sat 05-Jul-08 19:22:24
My parents bought a fab one for our friends' kids. She said she just got it in town and it wasn't hard to find. I had to make one cos I couldn't find any over here.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By itati on Sat 05-Jul-08 19:23:41
Thanks everyone. I will look in the bigger card shops.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By greenelizabeth on Sat 05-Jul-08 19:24:50
I sent a blacnk card to my cousin when she got her baby, and I just wrote my own message. But the card I got had a baby with a telephone on it. I'd seen others that would have been nice too. not impossible to find a suitable card.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Niecie on Sat 05-Jul-08 19:25:39
Thats what we did in the end - I think we sent a congratulations one after court, which was 18mths down the line in their case. We couldn't send a new baby one as the children were 2 and 5yrs so sent the adoption one then as it was more appropriate.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By StealthPolarBear on Sat 05-Jul-08 19:26:54
i've seen them, yes, in places like clinton's, don't think there's a great deal of choice tho
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By PertweeAndLemon on Sat 05-Jul-08 19:30:33
You could adapt a standard new baby card at www.moonpig.com <<thinks: I should be on commission, the number of times I've recommended them>>
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Kewcumber on Sat 05-Jul-08 21:35:06
I too would say congratulations cards are just fine.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By ilovemydog on Mon 07-Jul-08 20:00:34
or what about a 'welcome home' under the house warming category?
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Dynamicnanny on Sun 20-Jul-08 16:12:05
I like the welcome home idea
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By drspouse on Sun 20-Jul-08 16:31:56
I got one for a friend that said "Brand New Mummy and Daddy" (which wouldn't be any good for a second adopted child!). I know it takes ages before adoptions are finalised so have actually given it to them now they have a date for bringing him home (he's overseas).

Even though he'll be under 1, all the baby boy cards had prams or rattles and he's not that small!


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