All being well our LO will be moving in 11th December. She is seven months old. SWs have advised that she must meet no family or friends for at least six weeks - which obviously includes Christmas and New Year.
Have elderly parents who live close by who we always have Christmas lunch with at theirs (no other relatives, just us). Would it be massively detrimental to attachment building to still see them on Christmas Day, even just for a few hours? (We would say no cuddles/physical contact).
My parents have been ever so supportive of our adoption journey and it would break their hearts not to see us at Christmas; would it be terrible to make an exception to lock down just for an hour or so on just this occasion? Or are the potential risks to attachment building too great?
Any advice/experiences appreciated.
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Rufus27 · 23/11/2016 20:42
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