Apologies if its too vague I'm trying to make it unidentifiable. Just wondering if anyone has any advice or has been through the same thing.
We (DH and I) adopted twins about a year and a half ago. They were a family friends DCs.
We were told the other day that she is pregnant again and she won't be allowed to keep the DC.
If was suggested that we should consider taking this DC in as well when the baby is born.
We are torn, there are the practicalities to consider. As well as the twins we have another DC from a previous relationship so we would have to get a bigger car as well as the expenses of an extra child. Also we already have our hands full with two nearly two year olds and our older DC.
On the other hand this is our twins sibling who we could offer a nice life too and who I'm sure we would love as much as our current DCs. We have been given a property by DHs grandfather which we are renovating so we will have plenty of space for an extra DC.
So I am hoping someone has some advice or previous experience please and help us puzzle through everything.
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Adoptionagain · 12/07/2016 21:18
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