I've been in admin overdrive this week now that we have the adoption Cert I've been sorting passport, doctors, bank etc.
I've just been to open DS a bank account and after the initial small talk of oh how long has he been with you when she saw it was an adoption Cert she casually asked oh was he an unwanted child then (as in unwanted by birth parents) I just sat there like a fucking idiot and said there are lots of reasons why a child is adopted.
Now I am knackered this week and as such know I have a short fuse for bullshit but how fucking offensive was she and how fucking stupid was I not to give her my best steely look and tell her that was totally inappropriate. Grrrrr
I need a cutting one liner that I can have memorised for further situations of which I am sure there will be more, give me your best ones!
My normal line is sorry but that's personal and I can't discuss it. Now normally that's a response to a well meaning question but I need something firmer for the total pisstakers whom I never have to see again
Thankfully DS wasnt with me.
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So annoyed with myself, I should have said something but I didnt
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MintyLizzy9 · 08/07/2016 11:02
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