Please can you help. This is my first post and I hope I’ve put it in the right area. I promise I’m not a troll (!) – I’ve been a mumsnet lurker for a while, although I have to confess up until now my main interests have been The Litter Tray and Small Animals.
Our younger daughter is 15. We adopted her from China at 9 months of age. She attends a school where she has been from age 8. School have always been fully aware of her origins.
Today she came home from school very upset. The Head Teacher had spoken in assembly about the One Child policy in China and also the disposal of unwanted babies by iodine injection, in the womb. No warning was given to our daughter (or even us) that this sensitive subject would be spoken about. Obviously our daughter is very aware of her origins and the probable reasons for her abandonment soon after birth. She has overcome her less than perfect start to become a fabulous, bright, funny, mature and compassionate young lady. We are immensely proud of her.
My husband has spoken to the head teacher. She is sorry for the distress caused to our daughter and we have set up a meeting with her on Monday.
To be honest, I am shocked and utterly speechless at the lack of professionalism, sensitivity, wisdom etc displayed by this Head Teacher. Please tell me, am I overreacting, if not, how should I take this forward?
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School insensitivity to our daughter's origins - HELP!
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AdoptionSOS · 22/01/2016 17:25
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