My partner and I would like to adopt our 6 week old nephew. He has lived with us his entire life, and my sister also lives with us, though she wants to move back home. She has been very honest with everybody from the beginning of her pregnancy that she wished to put him up for adoption, but her mum was worried she would change her mind when he got here, so she decided to keep him until she was 100% certain, and she is now 100% certain. She is only 16, and really just wants her old life back, which I understand. Our nephew's father has refused to see him at every opportunity, and is not on the birth certificate.
We have an appointment with a social worker on Monday; but the truth is I'm very nervous that we have no chance. My nephew and I are both white, but my partner is black, so any more children we would have would be mixed race. We are also a same sex couple, and were trying to conceive a baby of our own for 6 months with donor sperm before our nephew was born. I'm also very worried that because my sister and him have been living here since he was born that any social worker will think that this is something we have forced on my sister, and its completely not, she just wanted somewhere less hectic than my step-mums home to raise him until she had made a decision.
Has anybody got any words of advise?
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TamsinJG · 10/12/2015 16:37
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