Hi there, posting on behalf of a friend who bizarrely seems MN resistant. Does anyone know if there's a book suitable for young children to talk about their life experiences in moving families?
My own birth experience is unusual - I have a donor conceived DD - and we had a book called Our Story which was a great support in talking to her about where she came from when she was little
My friends are adopting and the foster parents from the child's first year are keen to keep contact and my friend is concerned it all makes for a complicated story - why is the child not with birth parents, why did someone else have them for a year and why are they now where they are - 2 lots of rejection could be felt - and it could all be quite confusing.
The child is 18 months so its early days but certainly in my own situation it was good to talk about my daughter's origins before she could even understand it - just so it was something she had always known and there wasn't a great moment of revelation. Is that same approach possible here? Or even appropriate? Is there a story book that can help?
I know little about adoption so do please excuse me if I'm being insensitive in any way. Just trying to see if MN wisdom can help.
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Applesnotcakes · 04/11/2015 17:35
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