Hello, I'm a newbie here so just after some advice (please be patient as I don't know anything about this!).
Me and my DH have been ttc for over a year and have recently had tests back suggesting we will never be able to conceive naturally. Although this is upsetting I have always known I wanted to adopt and always planned to do so at some point and am therefore reluctant to go down the ivf route, etc. My best friend at school was adopted and my cousin adopted two sisters so I know a little about it but obviously not loads.
I was feeling ok about everything and was going to start researching but spoke to my friend about this who works in social services. She said that it is now increasingly difficult to adopt and that there are more potential adopters than children and that criteria is very strict. This has really upset me as all I have ever wanted was to have a family, I don't mind in what way, I just have always had that dream. I have a good job but have never been hugely ambitious in this way, I have geared my life towards forming a family.
Is it really so difficult as my friend says? Do I need to get used to the idea that I won't be able to adopt in the future?
Thanks and sorry for being so clueless!
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tessandjude · 09/05/2015 10:23
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