I have two young DSs, eldest has just turned 3 and youngest is 9mo but someone is definitely still missing in our family.
DH and I are keen to adopt and wondered if any kind MNers could answer a few questions.
We wouldn't be doing it for a few years, ideally when DS2 is about 4 but he will just be starting school (although he does go to nursery so is used to long days and being away from me). Is there an "ideal" time frame when considering these things? Would we be better to wait a year or do it earlier?
If either DS were to declare they didn't want another sibling, how seriously would the SW take this? Kids are contrary little buggers and don't often like the idea of change, even if they're okay when it happens. After all, we wouldn't let them veto us having another birth child.
How long does the whole process take?
I've suffered from PND after both DSs, would this count against me?
I'm sure I'll think of more questions, but those seem the most pressing.
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NotSayingImBatman · 01/04/2015 10:17
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