Hi,
My husband and I are really early on in the stages of the adoption process. We had our initial home visit and all went swimmingly, except one thing. We have two medium sized dogs who were really boisterous and barked loudly at the social worker (who didn't like dogs). Everyone was nervous and they seemed to pick up on that, chasing around and barking like mad - more so than usual!
Everything else is fine but the dog issue is written up negatively (although, sadly, completely accurately) in the report. They are very friendly and soppy dogs when they settle down, eternally loyal to family but the first five minutes are always loud and because the lady wasn't a dog person we never got to the 'settled' part.
Is this sort of thing a dealbreaker? Should we assume that we are unlikely to be approved while we have our dogs? I've come away from today with all my hopes dashed :(
Thanks for any advice or help from people who have been there.
Jo
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mistlejo · 16/03/2015 16:27
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