We aren't coping too well at the moment. We adopted a lovely little girl 3 months ago and she has settled in very well. But my husband and I aren't doing so well and I don't know what to do about it. Her behaviour is also very challenging at times. She is 20 months and sometimes she just loses it completely, often when she is tired. The only upside is that she can be calmed down quite easily with a cuddle and some quiet time. We try to prevent these but sometimes don't succeed. At times she can appear manic and just run around in circles shouting, she doesn't look upset during these times. Is this a sign of being over stimulated? Is it a sensory issue? She grew up in an orphanage.
Also, would this be ok. She sleeps like a log, never wakes up etc. If we put her to bed and left her with a babysitter that she is familiar with for a couple of hours. We would be five minutes walk away and would come home immediately if she woke up. We wouldn't leave until she was asleep and we wouldn't be back any later than 9.00. Could we do that?
Thanks in advance for all your help.
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aktht · 16/03/2015 02:04
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