We are just coming to the end of intros with our beautiful little one.
So far, it's been great and she is much more comfortable with us than we dared hope at this stage.
I'm quite confident that we can make her feel safe and secure during the days as we've spent so much time together - but when we have tried to settle her for bed at FCs house she won't snuggle down for us, and cried until FC went up for their usual good night kiss. She was fine after that.
The nature of our intros means that, although we have put a lot of effort into playing in her room so that she knows it's a safe place, and playing at putting her teddies to sleep in her bed, the first time she'll actually sleep here will be moving day.
I'm so worried that we won't be able to soothe her and get her to sleep. FC has it down to a fine art of being able to literally put her down, say night night and off she goes, but obviously that won't be the case with us!
We will follow the pre bedtime routine obviously, and keep everything familiar, but does anyone have any tips for me to help a scared almost 2 year old who will almost certainly be wailing for her FC? :-(
Thank you all.
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CloserThanYesterday · 17/01/2015 23:10
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