Father Christmas, not Foster Carers.
ADD2 is 10, and has finally realised that FC is pretend.
tbh I thought she had 'got' this much earlier this year, but obviously she has forgotten. But thanks to a friend in school ...
She was in tears last night 'Why to adults lie to children?' 'Everything is pretend'. She threw all her much-loved cuddly toys out of her bed 'they're not real'.
What makes it worse for me, is I never really wanted to go with the whole FC thing. But AD1 arrived believing, and everyone else telling her stuff, I just didn't disabuse her. I should have been stronger. We have generally downplayed, with only stockings miraculously appearing, all other presents clearly labelled etc, but still.
As an aside, if you've had a school aged child placed this year ( Italian et al) please check what they are expecting to happen. DD1's experience in FC was very different to how we do Christmas (for a start she had a giant present from that Santa person)
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Here are some suggested organisations that offer expert advice on adoption.
Adoption
DD in tears over FC
7 replies
UnderTheNameOfSanders · 25/11/2014 06:57
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.