My partners sister is 24 and infertile. She has always loved the idea of adoption but since her diagnosis she feels like it's the final push in that direction. She has been broody for a good few years, but only really since my Dd was born in august have her and her partner decided to go forward with their decision and start doing thorough research into agencies, protocols etc. Her and her Dp will make fab parents I know they will (he is 11yr older, they've been together 4year) and I want to support her choice but I'm scared that she is getting her hopes up when she will likely be rejected. Even if her age doesn't count against her they are a low income family in rented accommodation but they could afford for one parent to work part time after the year off - but her mother has bipolar disorder and other things and is highly medicated. She is a lovely woman but her dad is technically classed as her mum's carer - she spends lots of time with her parents and they would want to spend time alone with grandchild (I have no worries at all with them having my daughter but would a panel feel the same way?) her partners mother also is on anti depressants and is regularly signed off work sick. They also have a medium sized dog aged 3 who is well trained and gentle but very hyper..............I know a friend of a friend who adopted and her friends and relatives all had to be interviewed and asked about things like this before they would agree to giving the couple In question a child. How do I support her but help her keep a cool head as I would hate to give her false hope or encourage her in something that will hurt her. Thanks for any help.
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ExpectTheVeryUnexpected · 16/11/2014 21:12
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