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Barbadosgirl · 23/05/2014 18:15

Did people wait from approval to matching? I am finding this wait the toughest so far!

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Hels20 · 23/05/2014 18:32

6 months and then a further 3.5 months before he moved in. It is painful waiting but you can't rush the matching stage as it is so critical.

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Barbadosgirl · 23/05/2014 18:34

I guess my head knows that but my heart is tired of waiting! You are right, though, it is so important.

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Polkadotpatty · 23/05/2014 18:35

It is the hardest type of waiting, I think! About four months for me (although I could probably have told you the precise number of days at certain points, when the restless anxiety was winning!)
I am in an area with a fairly steady flow of children to place. We were told it would be 3-6 months post-approval in most cases, and for my prep group that's been true.
Thanks and rescue remedy to you!

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Barbadosgirl · 23/05/2014 19:19

Thanks, guys x

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Italiangreyhound · 24/05/2014 00:59

Five months from approval to hearing about ds. Then about two weeks of considering the match and getting everyone together, another two and a half months to panel and then three weeks to move in, roughly. So total 8 months.

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RhinosAreFatUnicorns · 24/05/2014 09:30

4 months from approval to being told about DD and a further 2 months to matching panel. For me this was the worst part of the whole process - I struggle with being patient!!

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