He emailed me and asked for my backing to do so. Saying he would let me see our son if he was with him blah blah blah. I declined. Said that this is what's in our child's best interests. He couldn't be bothered with contact. Not even when in local authority care. (so can't claim it was to do with me)
I'm now worried that the process is going to be dragged out because of him being selfish. He is (or was until at least this time last year cos he was on it at court) a cocaine and alcohol dependent. He stabbed me on front of our child. Strangled me multiple times (til I lost consciousness) and yes wrong as it was I stayed til he was visibly frightened of his own father.
Please tell me he has no chance of actually being successful in contesting?
I'm scared he will manage to get our son. And honestly I would rather my son be the other side of the world and me never hear or see him again than this happen. He thinks his mum (who sexually abused him) is suitable to look after him and would happily leave him in his brothers care (who done a long period of time for raping a not even teenage girl)
Please please tell me he won't get my son
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OurMiracle1106 · 10/05/2014 22:06
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