Am trying to keep this succinct but hope you can help!
I have dc1 almost 8 and dc2 in reception. Adopted separately, different birth families.
Dc1 has significant attachment difficulties and is presenting quite a lot of difficult behaviour, among which is a very controlling relationship with sibling. Dc2 is so far so good, mature, resilient, doing well at school and forming good friendships. Not without the anxieties you would expect in a child with such a difficult start.
They are both currently at a small, inclusive, supportive school with a great understanding of attachment. Hugely supportive of DC1.
However am wondering whether for DC2s well being I should look at moving just dc2 to a different school? It's a hard one as the other logistical choice has good ofsted but is 90 entry, a separate junior school, and would mean disrupting their established friendships. And the support if dc2 does struggle in future would I think be less good. Current school is outstanding in its response to DC1. And to do school runs to two places dc2 would have to do breakfast and after school club.
Advice much appreciated!
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Jennifersrabbit · 29/04/2014 09:53
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