I'm new to Mumsnet and I'm afraid I've just been lurking till now. I'm a writer and journalist based in Dublin, though from London originally. The lovely people at Mumsnet invited me to sign up to the Bloggers Network recently. I normally write about feminism and the Irish court system but I wanted to share my latest post here if it's OK with you. It's a very personal one for me. I've talked about every subject under the sun over the years but I rarely write about dealing with the Irish adoption system. My DH and I were so excited when we started the process about six years ago but we've since withdrawn completely after coming to the conclusion that we'll have to leave Ireland if we ever want to start a family.
A friend of mine wrote about her experiences of the system in the Irish Times at the weekend and I've written this response. Since Ireland ratified the Hague Convention a couple of years ago, due to a lack of bilateral agreements amongst other things, only 11 adoptions have gone through for post Hague declarations. There is very little domestic adoption here you see so the vast majority of adoptions are intercountry. It's meant that for those of us who hadn't completed the process before Hague the chances of adopting from anywhere are slim to none.
Anyway it's all in the post. I'd be grateful if you'd take a look and share or comment as you see fit. It's a subject that saddens me and angers me in equal measure and I'd like it to get as wide an audience as possible. Anyway the post is below.
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abigailrieley · 10/03/2014 17:20
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