Or are there any barriers you can advise on?
I've seen lots of promotion from my LA recently about considering adoption, lots about how many children they have waiting etc - but as I understand it we couldn't actually adopt a child from the same city as us, right?
Me and DP have been together 6 years but are unmarried (and not intending to marry). We have a 3 year old DS and DS2 on the way. We live in a 3 bed house that we rent (indefinitely) from a family member - the 2 boys will share a bedroom and while the 3rd bedroom is currently an office we could rearrange things to free that up as a child's bedroom of course.
DP is self-employed and works from home, I work with children and will probably return to work part time after a year's ML with DS2.
We would obviously not expect to start the adoption process for a few years yet and would ideally look for a 3-5 year age gap between DS2 and an adopted child. I think realistically we would want a younger child (under 2) and although we would consider some disabilities/developmental delays would have to take into account the impact on our other children. While we would consider a sibling group of 2, obviously space would be an issue here?
I guess what I'm asking is, would we be seen as candidates for adoption, are our expectations realistic, and what could/should we do in the next few years to but ourselves in the best position?
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MollyMatey · 21/11/2013 14:05
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