I've thought many times about name changing for this, but I'm just going to go for it so you know I'm not a troll. I'm also putting in a lot of info so you can see the full picture rather than drip feeding or getting the wrong advice
I have 2 lovely dd's they are 14 months apart in age and are currently 1 and 3. I am pregnant with baby number 3 at the moment and this is my 9th pregnancy.
I always imagined having 5 children, I know its crazy but that's what I've always wanted. Dh has a well paid job and I'm mainly a SAHM although I do a little self employed work. I hate pregnancy and can't deal with having another miscarriage. DH and I have been talking about him having a vasectomy. DH is in his early 30's and I'm mid 20's (6 year age gap)
I'm not ready to give up on my dream of having more children. Ever since we met dh and I have talked about adoption, it always been something we wanted to do, for various reasons. I'd just like to add I'm not expecting to adopt a baby, we'd be more than happy to adopt a child although wouldn't want to mess with the birth order of our current children, so we wouldn't really be starting the process for another 3-5 years.
I currently see a psychotherapist on a weekly basis, dealing with issues surrounding abuse and the recurrent miscarriages.
What are the chances of SS wanting us as adoptive parents? I've heard stories of people being declined because of having existing children, having what SS deam as too many children or because they have past issues (abuse being mine) I just want to know what all our options are before we make any permanent decisions
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CbeebiesIsMyLife · 06/11/2013 17:47
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