DH and I have just made the initial enquiries about adopting siblings, I know in my head (and have known for ages) that I want to adopt but sometimes find my feelings don't always match up to how I would expect to feel once we actually adopt (if that makes sense!).
We don't actually have any children, so don't have this sense of overwhelming love and acceptance for any child at the moment - maybe that makes it harder to imagine. The only way I can describe it is it was a bit like when I was planning our wedding and everyone asked "are you excited??" all the time - I felt strange because I didn't feel excited 24/7 (I was also doing my degree and buying a house and had other things on my radar!) but that didn't stop me knowing that marrying DH was the best decision I ever made. I just didn't have permanent feelings of excitement all the time - I also found it challenging and overwhelming and a million other things!
Is it the same with adoption? Is it normal that I know it's what I want to do, but also am full of questions and worries and apprehension? Or is everyone going through the process totally confident 24/7?!
I hope this makes sense - I'd really appreciate hearing other people's experiences.
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KumquatMay · 03/10/2013 17:27
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