So here goes...... I am currently 14 weeks pregnant. I know I WANT to have this baby adopted. I know some may think I'm being a coward and no facing up to my responsibilities. But this is the best thing for this baby.
I am 24, I have hardly any savings.... I can just about look after myself. I live in a flat share and have been with my on off boyfriend for a year. I always imagined at least being in my own place with a proper boyfriend before this happened. I am in no position to card for a baby right now!!! This has been the hardest decision of my life. But this baby deserves parents that will give it the best life possible. No matter how much it hurts me.
An abortion was never an option (I'm 100% pro choice) I found out 3 weeks ago after fall which resulted in me being taken to hospital. I have had an ultrasound and seen the sproglet floating about.
I am going to contact social services on Thursday. But I wanted some advice from people that may have already been through this. I love this baby, I won't change my mind because I know this best. So please don't tell me how great motherhood is.
These are main questions have....
What did you say to people at work, that stop and talk to you in the street etc??
How do I explain to my young nephews that there's a baby in my tummy, so whilst he has to be carefull when we play he won't ever meet this baby??
Do I buy baby clothes etc for after the birth??
Should I find out the sex??
Can I buy it a gift a teddy or something for him to take??
Will the baby realise that he has been taken away from me?? They say babies know who there mothers are?? Will he miss me for the first few days?? Would he be unsettled?? That would kill me to know!
What happens in the hospital after birth??
How can I go through the birth knowing the baby will be going?? Even if that's what I chose
How do I say goodbye??
Any advice or personal stories will be so much help right now.
Thank you
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jdm2608 · 15/08/2013 00:59
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