Sorry if this a bit long. DD came home in March last year and is currently 20 months. She did an introduction to nursery last week and appeared to love it. There were no tears, she engaged with the other babies and staff. This was what we expected - she is a very sociable little girl, lots of confidence and happily goes to other mums for cuddles etc (whilst always returning to me).
I am working three days a week, and started this week. When I picked her up on Monday she was teary, and tired as expected. On Tuesday, she cried when I left her (she has never done that) and again when I collected her. That night I was really worried about her as she seemed ill, but yesterday had perked up a bit. She cried when I left her again. Nursery report that she has not slept much and has been teary, and clingy with her key worker.
I am home today, and she just seems like a different child to what she was like before she started nursery - constantly crying, will not eat, crying in her cot (although she is still sleeping though the night). I caught her hitting and throwing her doll and toys round. I am hoping that it is just the fact that it's a big change, she's tired.
I have no concerns about the nursery - it is small with a family feel and has a great reputation. They have noted that she is vastly different to the induction week.
So I suppose my question is, is this normal? Both DH and I have been asking ourselves whether it is, or whether we are dealing with an attachment issue.
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Is this a normal reaction to starting nursery or something else?
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