Hello all
My dh and I are approved for 1 or 2 children and our preference since starting the whole process is for siblings. We have many reasons, mainly from our own family set up. I have very close relationships with my siblings and they have been and remain very important to me. I lost contact with my Mum at 17 (long story) and I lost my Dad died 7 years ago. My brothers and sister are my family and I feel very strongly about the importance of siblings as they have been so important to me. My dh has a similar background. Lets face it, they can be the longest relationship someone has. I know this relationship isn't always good for everyone, but I guess I want to be able to allow this important relationship to continue for others and if I can do this in adoption then that's a good thing imho.
I hear many stories about siblings from SW's and whilst this is valuable, I've only met one adopter who adopted siblings. Their experinece felt so much more useful (sorry to any SWs!). Plus whilst she was very candid with the tough times as well as the good I knew she had no motives so ot was easier to take onboard. I am sure experiences vary but I was wondering if anyone would be kind enough to share their expereince.
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WendyGx · 26/10/2012 12:25
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