My DH found out 4 years ago that his then partner (who he was with before he met me 8 years ago) who dissapeared and told him she had aborted a child they had concieved, did infact have a baby girl and had her adopted at birth. Obviously we were in total shock but wanted to see if there was anything we could do to try and get some contact, even if it was a letter or just a picture.
SS were awful and after explaining the whole situation basically said that we could have no contact as she didnt name him as the father. We even asked that they just put his name on her file on the off chance that if she ever decided to look for her family then at least she would have a name.... but no.
Is there any other route we can go down? And if you were her adoptive parents would you feel that you wouldnt want to send one photo. SS made us feel so unreasonable for even suggesting it. We totally understand that she is settled with a loving family and in no way want to disrupt that.
Any advice would be greatly recieved!
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SarahJ63 · 24/05/2012 22:57
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