Just after a little advice at a very early stage. DH & I always wanted 4DCs, and have 3 lovely little people. I cannot have any more due to (1) serious pre-eclampsia risk and (2) risk of cystic fibrosis. DD1 (aged 4) has cystic fibrosis- she has kept very well so far (touches wood) but on quite a strict medication and physio regime. We have DS aged 6 and DD2 aged nearly 2. DH and I have been discussing adopting a child when DD2 is 5 or older, so a way off yet, and we are both very keen. But I fear it'll be a nonstarter due to DD1's medical condition. She may need occassional hospitalisations etc. for 2 weeks at a time and moreso potentially as she gets older. Plus we obviously have the extra "burden" of her medical needs as it is. But part of me hopes that this could be deemed good experience to bring to a child with their own special needs ?
Would we even be able to foster considering DD1's condition? I realise there are many other considerations, and we may fail due to other factors potentially, but I'd love to know from the outset if we'd be deemed unsuitable to adopt.
Thanks for your time.
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JumpingJellyfish · 20/10/2011 15:42
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