Regular, but Nced.
DH and I are supposed to be doing a paper together. It's a very theoretical, very tricky piece and it's eating me alive. I'm spending most of my time trying to get my head around some very hard philosophy, DH has so far done absolutely nothing on it.
I have been fine about this, since he has an awful lot of admin on his plate this summer (v responsible, senior academic position) and I don't. While I could use a bit of another eye over this right now, I had excused him on the grounds that he's way too busy right now and will be making a contribution later on.
However, I've just found out that he's secretly been spending his time writing with other people! While I've been sitting here struggling and he's been telling me he can't possibly look at it now, he's been off with his RA writing about something easier!
I feel really betrayed! Let me get one thing straight: I KNOW THIS IS RIDICULOUS. I can't really put it into words. It's not like being 'cheated on', of course it isn't, and yet it feels a tiny bit like a dim echo of it.
I know this is SO unreasonable. I am not even totally serious, yet part of me is genuinely hurt.
One thing is for sure: once this is done, I'm not writing with him again!
Knock some sense into me with your mortarboards, fellow academics.
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Adifferentrationality · 18/08/2016 11:34
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