I would appreciate any advice to help me decide whether I should change from compressed hours (5 days over 4) to part-time (4 day week).
I have 2 DDs (5 yrs and 1.5 years). I look after them one day per week (which I am keen to do). I work from 8:15 to 5 and then from 8:30 til 10:30 or 11 on Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday; then do a long day on Thursday to make up my full time hours. I check my email when I'm off on Friday and respond to anything urgent.
I came to academia after an initial career in another area and I was 36 when I got my PhD. I worked as a teaching fellow for a year and then went on maternity leave. I just missed out on funding for a post doc, but while on maternity leave got a research job in a different but related field. Because of these changes I feel I had to start over again in terms of developing my knowledge in this new area (my job is part researcher / part research manager). I had my second dd during this time so had nearly a year off, which again has slowed things down in terms of developing my research career.
I am ambiguous and am keen to do well in my field but I sometimes struggle to get things done even with my compressed hours. Because of the management side of my job I spend a lot of time in meetings, which holds me back from spending time developing my own ideas and applying for funding. I'm in my early 40s now though and feel I need to get a move if I want to start doing some good work with broader impact. However I also feel tired with the full-on hours, and have no time to get our household admin work done (eg naked bulbs in hall after nearly 2 years in new house!). My DH is an academic and does 50 per cent of household tasks, but sometimes I feel that the whole week revolves around work and home. I dont want to look back in 20 years and think I should have taken things a bit more easy and had a better quality of life (tho I do have a good quality of life apart from being tired a lot!). Or perhaps I will look back and wonder why I didn't work harder and stay focused to do as well as I could in my job?. I think I'm at a cross roads in deciding what to prioritise - move to 4 days part time and become more home focused, or keep up the current routine and try and use my time to do some good work. Of course there is always the fear that one takes the 4 days but ends up doing the extra hrs anyway (unpaid!).
I guess the part time would only be for 2 years til my younger dd is in school, but as I'm in my early 40s I feel I need to make the most of my time now to get on.
I'd be grateful for any advice. Or feedback on how you manage these competing dilemmas. My situation may be slightly different as I am employed by a charity as opposed to a university.. But I see myself primarily as a researcher and am keen to progress on that career path.
Thank you in advance for any advice.
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TaytoCrisp · 05/06/2016 23:36
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