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Wow. I never thought it would happen to me...

(238 Posts)
KingJoffreysBloodshotEye Mon 01-Sep-14 14:25:13

My fault. Looked through DP's phone.

Picture text of two people fucking on a table sent by him.

She's replied, "Yes please daddy."


My lovely, kind DP. Fucking someone else.

Texts were sent last night while I was at work and he was really up for sex when I got home.

Been together ten years. Even recently celebrated our anniversary recently.

He's just run in from being outside with DS to get his phone.

I feel like I've been punched in the stomach.

I shouldn't have looked. This is why people don't snoop.

notapizzaeater Mon 01-Sep-14 14:26:24

Aww that's crap, are you going to confront him or get more evidence.

Galena Mon 01-Sep-14 14:27:12

Ugh. Sorry... but remember, it's not your fault.

notapizzaeater Mon 01-Sep-14 14:27:12

Aww that's crap, are you going to confront him or get more evidence.

HoldenMcGroin Mon 01-Sep-14 14:27:28

Oh mate

I am so sorry

CinnamonVanilla Mon 01-Sep-14 14:28:05


Call him daddy, and then watch it click.

Cluffyflump Mon 01-Sep-14 14:29:22

Oh shit.
So sorry. What a shock thanks

WilburIsSomePig Mon 01-Sep-14 14:29:42

Oh god. I'm so sorry. Do you know what you're going to do yet?

pootlebug Mon 01-Sep-14 14:29:54

It is NOT your fault for looking through his phone, it is his fault for his behaviour. I am so sorry you are going through this sad

notapizzaeater Mon 01-Sep-14 14:30:13

Aww that's crap, are you going to confront him or get more evidence.

KingJoffreysBloodshotEye Mon 01-Sep-14 14:30:41

Not long finished a nightshift.

DP is out.

No idea what to do.

PrincessTheresaofLiechtenstein Mon 01-Sep-14 14:30:42

Oh no. How horrible thanks

losthermind Mon 01-Sep-14 14:31:44

Oh shite on a sticksad
You have obviously subconsciously thought something was a miss
This isn't a time to bury your head in the sand
What a fucking wanker

eatscakefornoreasonwhatsoever Mon 01-Sep-14 14:31:57

Oh Joffrey. What utter crap. I'm so sorry

What a nasty thing to happen, I'm sorry OP, please don't ever think it's your fault.
You need to confront him and tell him that you're worth a million times better than this.

Scumbag "Daddy" angry

FannyFifer Mon 01-Sep-14 14:32:13

Oh fuck, I'm really sorry, any idea who she is?

icanhaveadarksideifyouwantmeto Mon 01-Sep-14 14:32:23

OMG! you mustnt blame yourself.

mcdog Mon 01-Sep-14 14:33:58

Thinking of you, how utterly devastating sad

Whereisegg Mon 01-Sep-14 14:34:14

Absolutely no way is it your fault flowers

ghostisonthecanvas Mon 01-Sep-14 14:35:14

Joffreys thats, well there are no words. I am sorry. First thing you need is rl support. flowers and hugs.

MyCrazyLife Mon 01-Sep-14 14:36:33

Sorry to be stupid, but is the man in the picture actually him? Or is it "just" a pornographic picture? This is disgusting, though, and I hope you will get through this x

DartmoorDoughnut Mon 01-Sep-14 14:36:40

Ugh angry so sorry OP thanks

Just to reiterate what others have said, definitely not your fault in any way shape or form

How horrible.

What will you do?

Nessalina Mon 01-Sep-14 14:36:52

You poor thing, that is just fucking devastating sad
Have you got someone in RL you can tell?

MagpieMama Mon 01-Sep-14 14:37:20

That's utterly shit sad
I think you've just got to be straight with him and tell him you looked at his phone and he's been caught then take it from there. As others have said, this is not your fault, he's in the wrong.

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