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Married (or not) with kids... How often do you DTD??

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PisforPeter Fri 15-Aug-14 16:26:06

It's just that sometimes I have to put it on my mental to do list so I don't forget grin

Deftones Fri 15-Aug-14 16:29:57

We DTD about 3 times a week depending on external factors such as work...DD is 6 so it's a lot easier than when she was younger!

Wannabeaninja3 Fri 15-Aug-14 16:36:33

I do that! Ha ha

Certainly not as often as in past, children are older now so that's not really a factor, just general knackerdness from work/house/kids all that stuff..

I do make a point of making sure it's good when we do do it tho ;)

CrocsAreJustPlainUgly Fri 15-Aug-14 16:37:46

My DS is 2.4 DP is 24 I'm 21 and it can be up to at least 3 times a day some days but always once a day at least. DS is in bed at the latest 7 and doesn't wake till 9-10 but doesn't have a nap in the day

Sometimes DP will come home from work at 11pm so on them days it's normally twice max I've never had to make a mental not though haha

purplemurple1 Fri 15-Aug-14 16:39:26

For the brief periods from when ds1 was 3 months to 7 months (when I got preg) - once a week. But as only because it was planned in as OH wasn't too bothered either way.
Once in 4 months of the pregnancy so far.

PisforPeter Fri 15-Aug-14 16:40:34

Wow crocs blush

PisforPeter Fri 15-Aug-14 16:43:02

DS is 2.5 & I work PT & by the end of the day am so knackered..
I do know the more often we DTD the more I want it.
Curry & wine tonight & we shall see what happens grin

MissMogwi Fri 15-Aug-14 16:43:16

Probably 2-3 times a week. Sometimes less sometimes more.

We have older children near or in their teens and actually makes it a bit trickier as they don't go to bed as early.

HighwayDragon Fri 15-Aug-14 16:50:10

between 1 and 7 times a week depending on a lot of factors

feekerry Fri 15-Aug-14 16:53:35

dd is 2.2 and ds 6 months. ds is a co sleeping bed hogger and dd doesn't nap in the day so only about once a month at the mo....won't last forever!

JoandMax Fri 15-Aug-14 16:55:00

It varies massively depending on work, DCs being ill etc

Probably on average 3 times a week, we talk about it a lot though!!

ToAvoidConversation Fri 15-Aug-14 16:56:10

Generally a few times a week, averages out. At the moment I'm feeling crappy so it's not happening as much but generally pretty good!

Deftones Fri 15-Aug-14 16:57:15

3 days a day...I miss those days! 3 times a Fucking day

BreadForBrains Fri 15-Aug-14 16:57:24

Once or twice a week on average, though sometimes twice a day (not all week though! Imagine the raw bucket fanjo!). I've been away for a bit though, so maybe 4 times this week? Unusual for us though, I usually cba.

Acolyte Fri 15-Aug-14 16:59:09

Biannually sad if I'm lucky.
Saying that, not managed it this year yet.

WyrdByrd Fri 15-Aug-14 17:02:36

Blimey crocs I though DH & I were doing well at 2-4 times a week!

Mind you we are relatively old glimmers at 39 & 45 and have been together 18 years so I don't think that's bad going grin !

WyrdByrd Fri 15-Aug-14 17:03:34


CrocsAreJustPlainUgly Fri 15-Aug-14 17:06:33

Haha we both have high rather high sex drives the week of my period is like hell for me lol.

However I don't have a raw bucket fanjo hmm

WorraLiberty Fri 15-Aug-14 17:06:55

If you do it 3 times a day, surely that must be pretty quick sex?

Why not do it once but properly grin

BramwellBrown Fri 15-Aug-14 17:07:44

used to be a couple of times a week but DH has a bad back so nothing for a few months now sad

CrocsAreJustPlainUgly Fri 15-Aug-14 17:08:44

30-45 minutes a time is fine for me grin

BramwellBrown Fri 15-Aug-14 17:12:07

crocs I'm a little jealous, you've probably had more sex this week than I have all year!

squirrelweasel Fri 15-Aug-14 17:12:53

Once a week, if husband suffered from premature ejaculation then every day but he can't do a quickie and I'm bloody shattered. Come the end of the day once all the jobs are done I selfishly want time alone, to sit and read.

slithytove Fri 15-Aug-14 17:15:23

1/2 times a week, but haven't for about 3 weeks as I'm 36 weeks pregnant sad

slithytove Fri 15-Aug-14 17:15:58

We are 28 with 16mo DS

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