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Am I being completely mad to be worried DH isn't home?

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Ber2291 Sat 09-Aug-14 03:30:45

He went out for some after work drinks. He usually has to be forced into going out by me and even at big occasions usually gets the last tube home (he would never dream of paying for a cab). I haven't heard from him since about eight. If I was out I think I'd mention that it was going to be a late one. Im also 39 weeks prgnant and we have other DC (not that that bit matters particularly, but we arent care free Groovy young professionals!). His phone is off of course.

I'm probably being so melodramatic but I honestly can't remember when he last went out this late and it seems a bit odd that these
Drinks would turn into that (with colleagues who he isn't particularly close with). So I have a sinking feeling that something has happened and can't sleep.

Notsureaboutthisusername Sat 09-Aug-14 07:39:58

Good luck! Bloody men! He will be gutted if he misses it. Hope you're all OK. X

mrselizabethdarcy Sat 09-Aug-14 07:40:38

Oh my. Good luck ber2291.

wineoclocktimeye Sat 09-Aug-14 07:41:00

Hopee he's home soon with tail between legs.

my dh did similar when I was 8 months pg. turned out he was so drunk that he tried to climb a fence to see where he was and fell off. he hurt his head and ended up at his parents place. I'm sure yours isn't as stupid as mine, but I think some men have a little blow out before a baby is born.

I ended up going out and not telling him the next day and stayed away for while, he was ringing me constantly when I got home I told him to stop worrying and that this was the way I was as feeling the day before. he has stopped this behaviour now.

I hope he's home now or if not he's home soon.

men are just selfish and stupid I think its engrained in them.

wineoclocktimeye Sat 09-Aug-14 07:41:47

And good luck of course

oh good luck op.

MsInterpret Sat 09-Aug-14 07:42:32

Wow! One way or another he's in the doghouse, big time. Hope you're ok OP thanksthanksthanks to you and your lovely friends!

FannyFifer Sat 09-Aug-14 07:42:38

Hope you find out where he is.

grobagsforever Sat 09-Aug-14 07:44:34

Wow you're calm! How frequent are your contractions?

TheTravellingLemon Sat 09-Aug-14 07:45:44

Ooo good luck! Bloody men.

DoItTooJulia Sat 09-Aug-14 07:48:05

Good luck with both labour and locating DH!

angelohsodelight Sat 09-Aug-14 07:48:08

Bloody hell, what a selfish inconsiderate twat your dh is.

jemimarose Sat 09-Aug-14 07:49:10

Good luck! Keep us posted if possible. Is DH there yet? If not get someone to track him down?!

ClashCityRocker Sat 09-Aug-14 07:49:46

Wow, good luck OP!

Fwiw, I'd be going absolutely shitnuts at him (unless I was busy having a baby).

Mumof3xox Sat 09-Aug-14 07:50:19

Oh god

He best have a good excuse or this could be a deal breaker!

How are your contractions? Do you have childcare sorted and stand in birth partner?

charlietangoteakettlebarbeque Sat 09-Aug-14 07:50:56

Op said that this is totally out of character. Perhaps we should wait to find out exactly what happened before cussing him out? Maybe he is a twat, but it could also be that something has happened to him?

Mumof3xox Sat 09-Aug-14 07:54:11

Op have you contact details from anyone he was with? Facebook maybe?

ILoveYouBaby Sat 09-Aug-14 07:54:29

Ooh good luck for the birth. I hope your husband reappears soon. ..

Dukketeater Sat 09-Aug-14 07:58:28

Good luck for birth, hope oh is ok

okeydonkey Sat 09-Aug-14 07:58:45

Grgh! But gd luck with labour

MrsSchadenfreude Sat 09-Aug-14 07:58:50

Good luck!

ZenGardener Sat 09-Aug-14 07:59:23

Oh, wow!!! Good luck and you are quite right to focus on yourself and the baby.

Bakeoffcakes Sat 09-Aug-14 08:02:36

Good luck OP. I'm sure he'll be back soon.

Well that's not where I expected this thread to go...

Good luck op!

stickkettleonwillya Sat 09-Aug-14 08:06:31

how are you op?

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