Anyone want to discuss xmas present ideas yet?

(48 Posts)
overitalready Mon 09-Sep-13 16:14:27


TrinityRhino Mon 09-Sep-13 16:15:16

yeah go for it

tell me what to get mine

13, 8 and 6
all girls


Sirzy Mon 09-Sep-13 16:16:07

Ds has already told me he wants lego and hot wheels. He is nearly 4 (and wants lego and hot wheels for his birthday too!)

I think I may need to think of a few alternatives though!

overitalready Mon 09-Sep-13 16:18:44

No trinity your meant to tell me! My DD is 10 & i swear has everything.

Ive trawled the xmas board all afternoon havent done any work and im still none the wiser.

Ive asked her & she states nothing.

sirzy see your ds is helpful!

unclehairysgirlfriend Mon 09-Sep-13 16:24:27

Ooh, I love a Christmas pressie thread!

DS is 5 and Minecraft daft. Seems there are a few Minecraft toys now so will investigate those further - he already has Minecraft lego.

DD will be 3 a few days before Christmas so needs birthday presents too! Thinking about a dolls house for her but not sure if she'd play with it. I like the look of the ELC Rosebud village stuff.

Think it gets more difficult as they get older - wouldn't have a clue where to start with a 10 year old!

overitalready Mon 09-Sep-13 16:28:34

im glad someone loves them hairy! Was worried i'd be told to get lost, that its only Sept!

it really is so much easier when younger. Shes 10 so shes in the 'thats not cool enough stage mum' but still in the too young to be cool stage.

dont even know if that makes sense

looks like youve got urs pretty much sussed though

milk Mon 09-Sep-13 16:30:12
FruOla Mon 09-Sep-13 16:32:44

Thank you milk flowers - I was just about to suggest the Christmas Topic myself and before Maryz goes ballistic grin

overitalready Mon 09-Sep-13 16:37:14

Thanks both but as above ive trawled the xmas board all afternoon havent done any work and im still none the wiser blush

overitalready Mon 09-Sep-13 16:38:16

although if i cant get any ideas from pages & pages worth of xmas posts then i clearly am in trouble here grin

Sirzy Mon 09-Sep-13 16:39:29

Does it have to be a physical present or would tickets to a show or concert be an option?

mameulah Mon 09-Sep-13 16:41:10

Bump! Looking forward to hearing all the good ideas. Can't write mine yet but will be back.

MissHC Mon 09-Sep-13 16:42:55

That's actually not a bad idea to start thinking now. I'm pregnant and due in November. We're visiting my family who live abroad for Christmas, so 6 weeks after due date. I will need presents for my family and DP and I doubt I'll want to source them when caring for a newborn.

Might be a good idea to buy them when I go on mat leave in October so I need to start thinking now.

Now, as to what to buy... I'd need presents (at least) for my mum (53), brother (who's bday is 5 days before Xmas, he'll be 21, so I need 2 presents for him or 1 big one), and DP (30). And for mum's dog, a springer spaniel smile

I am supposed to buy my then probably 6-week old baby an xmas present? Maybe I'll put a bow around my boobs which could also work as present for DP grin

The dog will be easy. Something vile tasty. Or some kind of undestructible dog toy like this. He's got this from the same make when he was a puppy 5 years ago and after being buried in the garden on several occasions, chewed on, etc it's still in one piece. So I'd quite happily buy something from the same brand hoping it will prove to be just as sturdy.

My mum - also fairly straightforward. Chocolate or perfume or a combination of both. Maybe some wine/port/cava. 2 years ago I got her this Estee Lauder make up kit that they do for christmas and she was very pleased with it.

Brother - that's always the most difficult. What on earth do you buy for a 21 year old guy who's only interested in gaming? I've bought him computer games (response "I've already got that" or "I can just download that you know"), gadgets that are never used and vouchers for music etc (again, "I can just download that). Went all out 2 years ago and bought one very expensive "gift experience" with which he could choose an activity (e.g. skydiving, day on a race track, flying in a ULM etc) and to this day he has still not used it angry
Anyone any ideas? Can be fairly expensive as both 21st bday & christmas gift (or 2 separate things)

DP - also difficult. Maybe something to do with new dads. He only really ever wants DVDs of shows I hate so I try not to buy those otherwise I have to watch them with him grin That's selfish me coming out. He can't do perfume or smelly things (asthma) and couldn't care less about the clothes he wears ("you want me to spend £30 on a pair of jeans??? are you crazy? who spends that amount on some jeans?"). He loves sports though so I've bought him tickets to things in the past but there's not much one can go to in the middle of winter with a newborn.
Again, any ideas?

(wow, sorry, that was very long!)

overitalready Mon 09-Sep-13 16:44:04

oh a concert would be good, i'll have a look now we saw one direction last year & i had a great time grin

didnt think of that again, thanks sirzy

ThreeMyselfAndI Mon 09-Sep-13 16:44:18

Weve bought dd1&2 (8&10) a Samsung galaxy tab 3 there fab! Dh is now buying me one. You can buy the keyboard to go with them too

overitalready Mon 09-Sep-13 16:47:32

she has a kindlefire already. is the Samsung different? Im technology rubbish! I brought her an ipod touch for her birthday in July & only just figured out how to get music on it!

overitalready Mon 09-Sep-13 16:52:22

what about money miss? for your brother? that way he can pick what he likes

i also made the mistake of buying dp bloody boxsets that i hate & having to sit through them all shakes fist at bloody doc martin

ThreeMyselfAndI Mon 09-Sep-13 16:56:36

Not too sure, they have play books and wanted ipads but after visiting several shops and talking to the staff we were told the samsungs have the best software just now. Loads of free apps to keep them amued and the correct software to allow films to play.

WaitMonkey Mon 09-Sep-13 16:58:18

envy I want to see One Direction.

Snowflakepie Mon 09-Sep-13 17:01:53

Don't go buying anything for the new baby MissHC, you will be given tons. Plus a winter birthday means a long wait for presents again! We haven't yet bought DD anything for her Jan birthday, just waited to get garden toys in the summer. She will be 4 in the first week of Jan, and its so hard trying to think of things for Xmas and birthday because family always ask. I start writing a list in the summer now when I think of things!

For DH I got cuff links with 'Name's Daddy' on, sorry if that's twee. Or a keyring, personalised? For family we made baubles with a photo of DD inside and glitter to shake etc. Foot and hand print pictures also went down well with family.

My DBro is always a problem and I'm afraid I tend to wimp out and just give cash now. Luckily with the DC around I can get them to make something so he has a gift to unwrap but in truth, I don't think he cares.

10 year olds are tough too. I can't remember what I liked then. Probably music or books, so an iTunes voucher or amazon or something, so I could choose myself. Or offer to go clothes shopping in a big dept store or somewhere 'cool' if such a place exists?! I'm thinking maybe an outlet place like MacArthur Glen, have a nice meal, maybe a simple spa treatment thing for mum and DD. Make her feel grown up. But that might be too old still.

Any thoughts for adult brothers who always seem to get given alcohol?!

cantspel Mon 09-Sep-13 17:11:24

MissHC 21 year old gamer a subscription to a gaming mag, a blue snow ball gaming Microphone or astro gaming head set

MissHC Mon 09-Sep-13 17:13:18

Thanks for your suggestions.

I'd rather not give money to my brother he'd just spend it on booze being a student I might ask my mum if she knows if there's anything he desperately wants.

I like the cuff links idea for DP. He wears suits a lot and loves his cuff links. I think we'll definitely print out some baby pics for all the family, that's also a good point. Family is very big so I don't want to buy everyone a separate present.

I have a 10-year old godchild. Last thing I bought was a "make your own jewellery" set. She likes crafts though. It was quite an expensive one to make bracelets and necklaces. According to her mum she loved it.

MissHC Mon 09-Sep-13 17:16:48

Thanks cantspel, I'll look into the gamer mag subscription but he's abroad and I'm not sure if they do them there. But that's something he might actually like smile

DB studies computing sciences so maybe a subscription to a mag linked to that might be good too.

He's got a super expensive head set to play his online war games so I don't think I can get anything to replace that as it will never be quite as good and I don't have the budget to get something that's on par with the one he has.

madmomma Mon 09-Sep-13 17:19:22

Please pop in to my pity party at having 2 dcs born it xmas week? dd1 is 16 on xmas day and dd2 is 2 on 23rd. So wtf am I gonna do with that bad bitch? <weeps>

cantspel Mon 09-Sep-13 17:21:05

How about a MIXAMP™ PRO or a Roxio Game Capture HD Pro so he can upload his game play on to you tube so that all the other gaming geeks can share.

(can you tell i am the mother of a teen gaming geek)

Campari Mon 09-Sep-13 17:22:38

Is there anyone here who doesnt buy gifts for siblings? I used to get gifts for my 2 younger DBs, but this year I am becoming an aunty for the 1st time (a newborn niece!) and would like to spend the sibling gift cash on her instead, as my SIL is saving for a pram.

So, would it be ok for me to say to DBs..."right, you ungrateful gits....this year you're getting an orange and a tuppence, and your niece is a cute baby so gets cold hard cash..? grin

cantspel Mon 09-Sep-13 17:24:22

Campari we dont buy for siblings anymore. We stopped when we had children and just now buy for the children.

overitalready Mon 09-Sep-13 18:04:03

Love them ideas snow, thanks grin

Mad erm your on your own sorry wink

Campari Mon 09-Sep-13 18:09:14

Yes I think thats sensible, this year I will just be getting gifts for DD, DS, DH, niece, and probably something special for DM. Thats it.

MissHC Mon 09-Sep-13 18:11:24

Thanks cantspel, never heard of it haha. Will look into it!

OliviaMMumsnet (MNHQ) Mon 09-Sep-13 18:21:56

We will shortly be moving this to our lovely jingly Xmas topic
<done 90% of my shopping>
<smug emoticon>

AbiRoad Mon 09-Sep-13 18:26:40

My DD is about the same age. She has asked for a desk and swivel chair for her room if that helps. Could you redecorate her bedroom or something? For her birthday she got rollerblades. She most wants an IPad mini but knows she will not get one.

VivaLeBeaver Mon 09-Sep-13 18:36:38

Dd is 12. I'm planning on getting her a Primark voucher, an iTunes voucher, some stationery, a fox satchel, some earrings and a tabletop electric drum thingy and Despicable Me 2.

Sil, smellies from Lush.
Dad, a book that I think he'll like.
My mum will tell me what she wants.
My mil will get some sort of smellies box set.

No idea what to get dh, my brother or a 7yo nephew.

Lego are launching Minecraft sets. DS nearly wet himself when I told him .. that's his list sorted!

overitalready Mon 09-Sep-13 19:32:03

Oh i got a HQ message wink

Would love to decorate her room
but we rent so were very limited on what we can do hmm

I love that list, despicable me has gone on mine

thanks everyone smile

VivaLeBeaver Mon 09-Sep-13 20:32:56

Oooh, I've just ordered dd a minecraft Lego set. I didn't know they did them, she loves Lego and minecraft.

Eddas Mon 09-Sep-13 21:00:00

My dd (will be 9.5 at christmas) was saying she didn't like her ceiling lightshade anymore so I thought I might get her a new one for christmas <<tightarse>> perhaps decorating the room could be new duvet set, rug, lamp, curtains... that sort of thing rather than painting walls?

VoldemortsNipple Mon 09-Sep-13 22:21:36

Ds1 and 2 are getting the new Xbox One between them and a game each. I will also get them a few extras like the chill factor slushy cup which ds2 will love

DD is 17, so will get mainly makeup, ghd's and bath/body products.
Dsis has £67 worth of Elemis products for £11 thanks to the bargain thread
Dbro kindly puts all kinds of weird and wonderful things on his Amazon wishlist, so I will just pick him something from that.
Dnieces are also sorted with a selection of Squinkies and Zhu Zhu puppies curtisy of the bargain thread
I'm still searching for the bargains for dnephews.
And dh is the most awkward to buy for, so I haven't got a clue.

toffeelolly Tue 10-Sep-13 10:51:35

Well my ds1 all he wants is spongebob toys ( spongebob mad ) he also likes Lego , but he already has got so much Lego. ds2 loves trains, so thinking of getting him the Lego train track, along with other electric train sets, he is quite easy to buy for. And then dd just wants everything she sees, she is getting more syvanian stuff also Lego friends, she had also just informed me she wants a guitar, oh and she also is getting a reborn which she does not know about. It is just so hard to know what to get them, I find it much harder knowing what to get ds1 he is more a gadget child, computor mad and spongebob smile

fuzzpig Tue 10-Sep-13 12:20:15

I love these threads! The only problem is they sometimes result in me buying too many presents. I am refusing to look at the Bargain threads this year for this very reason blush

fuzzpig Tue 10-Sep-13 13:21:38

I got Spongebob Lego for DD's birthday this year, toffee (it was cheaper when I bought it though)

toffeelolly Tue 10-Sep-13 14:25:40

Yes fuzzpig got him some spongebob lego

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3bunnies Thu 07-Nov-13 18:57:15

Would she like a basic sewing machine - John Lewis do one for just under 50 - dd1 is nearly 9 and enjoys mine.

Stevie77 Thu 07-Nov-13 20:20:15

We have no idea what to get DD who's 4.

Thought Furby but once found out they don't shut up have decided against, Kiddizoom camera (or whatever it's called) but it seems rubbish quality so won't bother. So we're stuck. Have asked her but she has no idea.

She's already getting 2 Disney DVDs and a a couple of new books so need one more thing, a toy. It was her birthday last month so she got everything she's wanted.

Already has Lalaloopsy house, dolls & remote control car. Would have got some furniture for the house but can't se to find any? Has all arts and craft stuff, lots of puzzles and other games, basically she's got everything!

drawohamme Thu 07-Nov-13 21:39:37

Christmas gifts for 6 month old

Very few of my family or friends know much about babies and they're all asking what they can buy DS. I have no clue either and with all the choice out there Christmas seems like a really good opportunity to waste a lot of money. Can anyone give me any recommendations?

Thank you!

drawohamme Thu 07-Nov-13 21:40:23

Oops posted in wrong place - sorry!

jester68 Fri 08-Nov-13 10:30:30

DD1 aged 7 is getting: Bike with helmet and bell.
Then some moshi monster stuff
DVDs and books
Necklace and bracelet
One direction fleece blanket
Arts and crafts

DD2 aged 3 is getting:
DJ mickey mouse
Selection of zhu zhu ztuff
Books and DVDs
Thomas tank engine toy
Hello kitty fleece blanket.
Arts and crafts

Also Xmas eve hamper of new pyjamas, the snowman DVD and the poloar express DVD, bubble bath, bath crayons and Christmas story. Plus some hot chocolate mixes and some nibbles to eat while watching the DVDs.

We always have a lazy day on Christmas day just the 4 of us. But will buy them something nice to wear on boxing day when we host for lots of family!

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