My husband and I live next door to his parents. His parents are hosting Christmas with his two brothers coming (one lives long distance the UK the other lives abroad). My husband and I are going to my parents' this year, they literally live the other end of the country so we only see them a couple times a year (we do 1 in 3 Christmases with my family as my job means I have to work most Christmases).
We've seen my husband's brother (1) a few times this year already. The brother (2) who lives abroad has not been back this year but is coming back again next Christmas.
My dilemma is this: my in laws have asked me to leave a day earlier than planned at my mum's so that she can have 'all 3 of her boys' together for just the one night (brother number 1 has to go back on the day we're due home due to work commitments so we'd just miss each other) but brother number 2 will be there when we get back. Aside from us having to pay to change all of our tickets as we go on the plane then train, is this fair of her to ask me? I know it will upset my family before I even tell them as they don't get to see us much.
Sorry if it's a bit long - I do tend to worry over the slightest thing!
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MotherDuck23 · 07/12/2015 14:03
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