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So, DD2 will be 10 a few days before Christmas, and we always struggle to come up with enough gift ideas to cover Birthday and Christmas from us and all the various elderly relations who can't get to the shops or don't have the faintest what to buy her. And Santa, of course.
DD2 doesn't help much because she's not really that into "stuff" - she's more likely to invent complex games with dog-eared packs of cards and tokens drawn on cardboard hauled out of the recycling, or sit rereading "Asterix in Egypt" for the 1,000th time. So at this time of year when you ask her to write a list she is no help whatsoever, coming up with things like "chocolate" and "a time machine". To be fair, these two would probably be at the top of my list also, but it's not much help with the shopping. She is fairly susceptible to peer pressure though, so by the time Christmas rolls around her list eventually includes one or two more mainstream things that her friends from school are getting, and most years we buy them and she doesn't play with them and it's frustrating but not enough money to get upset about.
This year she wants one thing and only one thing. She has been talking about it since Easter. It is absolutely and entirely about the peer pressure. It is an American Girl Doll. (I had to Google it, they are ££££ - or, rather $$$$, you can't get them in the UK. Apparently a few of her classmates' parents travel to the US a lot.) It is also absolutely and entirely the wrong thing for DD2, who has never shown much interest in dolls; she asked for a Barbie one year which just sat, and still sits, ignored on the shelf.
I tried to talk her out of it over the Summer, saying how expensive they were and she wouldn't get value out of it and we could get her several other presents for the same money, when she pulled out her trump card. I wasn't to worry about the cost, because she would ask Santa for it. She had been talking to the other girls at school and they all agreed that because Santa makes toys, not buys them, then it doesn't cost him anything and you can save your parents a lot of money by putting all the really expensive things in your letter to Santa. She was delighted by her own brilliance. I said I wasn't sure even Santa would be able to manage it (hitherto the main presents have come from us and the stocking is mostly silly stuff and socks) but she was adamant he could because he was bringing another girl in the class (who already has several of these dolls apparently) a bed and bedding for it costing ... wait for it ... $200. Oh yes. This doll is the thin end of a very painful wedge. Thank heavens for good old Santa, eh?
Now there is a whole other question which is how on earth do a group of children this old still manage to believe in Santa? In a more innocent age I rumbled the whole thing aged about 7, so how this lot are clinging on to their delusions I have no clue. But I don't want to be the one that wrecks it for them.
So here we are. DD2 is confidently expecting Santa to deliver an unobtainable expensive waste of money on Christmas morning. DH refuses to countenance it because it is an unobtainable expensive waste of money. If I explain why she can't have it, she will tell all her classmates that there is no Santa and I will be The Grinch That Stole Christmas.
Gah. What would you do?
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r3dh3d · 09/10/2015 10:05
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