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Brother bringing his partner for xmas, what to get someone I've never met?

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ggirl · 15/12/2014 14:55

Can't believe I've never met her but we live practically on opposite sides of world .
No idea of her taste , have seen a few pics of her but that's it . Brother is being a dick and. Not replying to my emails.
Wtf do I get her ?

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chanie44 · 15/12/2014 15:03

If she lives on the other side of the world, it needs to be transportable.

A scarf?
Something from m&s?
Cashmere socks
Passport holder
Stationery like a nice pen

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ZeViteVitchofCwismas · 15/12/2014 15:04

A scarf.

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Middleagedmotheroftwo · 15/12/2014 15:07

You can't really go wrong with chocolate!

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ggirl · 15/12/2014 15:22

Thanks , scarf and chocolate sounds good .

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disneymum3 · 15/12/2014 16:04

Save money and buy Nothing

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wonkylegs · 15/12/2014 16:08

A charity goat?

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TheMagicToyshop · 16/12/2014 14:13

What's your budget and how long are they staying? You could get vouchers for a meal out whilst they're here or nearby shop so she can have a nice experience on her trip?

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oranges · 16/12/2014 14:15

when I was at bf family xmas on the other side of the world, the gifts I loved the most were books about that part of the world- novels, travelogues. it really helped me understand the place.

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ggirl · 16/12/2014 22:34

They live in Vancouver

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mysteryfairy · 16/12/2014 23:00

I've got my SIL who I have met but who lives in New York cashmere ballet pump slippers. Very easy to fit in a suitcase and only worn in private so not too terrible if she's not keen on the colour. I did know her shoe size... You might not have that info.

In the past I've bought Jo Malone stuff on basis of it being very English. I think I've bought earl grey and cucumber and freesia and pear.

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elastamum · 16/12/2014 23:09

If she is coming from down under she will be cold when she gets here! Buy her a jumper Grin

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mummytime · 16/12/2014 23:10

I'd got for something very English. Tea? Whittards?
Or a good English/British brand (if you are in Scotland its even easier, a Tartan rug/shawl?).

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EstRusMum · 17/12/2014 01:12

Just buy her loads of proper stereotypical English stuff... I mean - you can't go wrong with "keep calm" mug and a book about England (historical sites/castles) or it's culture (English jokes/slang). Maybe cute double decker bus souvenir?
Or if your family have some silly gift tradition (socks, scarves or personalised mug) - it's the best way to welcome her to the family. Smile

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Waitingonasunnyday · 17/12/2014 08:47

When I didn't know my SIL, I bought her a really nice set of lip glosses.

(I have no idea if she liked them as she NEVER says thank you for anything, although she does sometimes explicitly criticise gifts.)

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ggirl · 21/12/2014 08:45

thanks for all the suggestions , i bought her a scarf , some prestat chocs in union jack box , hand cream and some fancy tea.

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whatn0w · 21/12/2014 08:49

A couple of top selling paperback novels? Even better if one or both is based somewhere interesting in Britain (there are a couple excellent ones based in Cornwall)

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