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I am not sending Christmas cards for the first time this year

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Sparklingbrook · 07/10/2012 22:35

How do you tell people that you aren't when you don't see them? I have email addresses for some but not all.

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SwedishEdith · 07/10/2012 22:39

Wouldn't it be easier to just send a card? Are you meant to tell people you're not sending cards?

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Sparklingbrook · 07/10/2012 22:42

Well I want to make a donation to charity instead and do my bit for the environment. But if I send them all a letter saying I'm not sending cards that defeats the object.

I think it's time to stop Christmas cards.

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ThisisaSignofthetimes · 07/10/2012 22:46

No cards here either this year. For those that I have email addresses or tel no, they will get email or text telling them of charity donation and for those I haven't, to be honest are probably not close or I would have at least a tel no.

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pictish · 07/10/2012 22:50

Well done. It's a brave decision....I stopped sending them many years ago.

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Sparklingbrook · 07/10/2012 22:50

I think that's what I will do. It's not a bah humbug thing, I just don't see the point. I wish everyone would do it, I don't even put Christmas cards up. Grin

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pictish · 07/10/2012 22:51

Nope - I don't either. Over the years I have got less cards all the time. It's great.

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deleted203 · 07/10/2012 22:52

I haven't sent them for years. Mostly because I'm not organised enough and can't be arsed. No one has ever complained.

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ThisisaSignofthetimes · 07/10/2012 22:55

No, don't put the cards up that I do receive, they just clutter the place up or fall down! There are better ways of keeping in contact these days.

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Inneedofbrandy · 07/10/2012 22:56

I love doing my christmas cards, and getting them. Your all humbugs!

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dearprudence · 07/10/2012 22:57

I mostly stopped a few years ago. I just figured that most people would never notice that they hadn't received a card from me, and I felt liberated.

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TheMightyRubester · 07/10/2012 22:58

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3duracellbunnies · 07/10/2012 22:59

Each year I promise myself that I will do them, each year I only do a handful, I'm sure people think that I went green years ago!

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Sparklingbrook · 07/10/2012 23:04

I keep my received ones in a pile and put them in the recycling on Boxing Day.

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Virgil · 07/10/2012 23:06

We haven't sent any for the last two years and have also seen a massive reduction in the number we receive. If nothing else it saves a fortune in postage.

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NorksAreMessy · 07/10/2012 23:09

HOORAY!
I am a positive CRUSADER for abolishing this complete nonsense.
Have not sent any cards at all for years. It is freeing and liberating and will make you happier.

(am also an old humbugger who throws any cards we get from HSBC or DFS straight into the bin; and any others go in the bin after I have shown them to DH)

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NorksAreMessy · 07/10/2012 23:09

Eeeek, and NO round robin letters EVER EVER EVER :)

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halloweeneyqueeney · 07/10/2012 23:11

I love getting and sending christmas cards! but I don't keep tabs on who hasn't so no need to explain

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Sparklingbrook · 07/10/2012 23:16

I am v excited now. What else can I do away with?

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bluecarrot · 07/10/2012 23:16

We are using up the last of our cards this year (including a note about donating to charity next year) and then we are stopping. Though DD makes a special ones for her grandparents and that will likely continue.

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MarjorieAntrobus · 07/10/2012 23:19

It is a complete nonsense, I agree.

I have DParents who think that recording the cards sent and received each year is a worthwhile use of their time so that they can send and receive the right cards the following year.

I can cut out cards easily, apart from the parental/elderly factor as shown above.

Sheesh.

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MarjorieAntrobus · 07/10/2012 23:21

Oh, and I am the kind of person who puts most cards in the bin as they arrive unless they are v pretty or full of useful information.

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Sparklingbrook · 07/10/2012 23:23

I have never had a christmas card full of useful info. Grin

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YouMayLogOut · 07/10/2012 23:23

I love Christmas cards! I'd much rather give up some other item or small treats of my own at another time of year, than someone else's Christmas card. It's the equivalent of giving someone a goat as a present - your forfeiting something (gift or card) that someone else would otherwise have received.

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YouMayLogOut · 07/10/2012 23:23

you're, not your!

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Sparklingbrook · 07/10/2012 23:24

Think of the trees though, and the fuel involved in delivering bits of cardboard.

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