would you still be interested in them? Or would you run a mile??

It depends what went wrong. We all make mistakes, sometimes several times over. If he left them all for someone else I would run.

I'd think they were a romantic.
I'd want to know what had happened to the other wives!

Id tink he was either rather unlucky, or that there was something seriously wrong with him andyes id run, but i am very cynical

lol well I know that they're all still alive if that's what you mean shitemum

well, I'd be glad that he was honest at least, but would be realistic about the possibility of a lasting future.

what would I say?

BYE.

I'd run. No-one's that unlucky.

If he blamed everything on his previous wives i would wonder a bit, but my dp has been married twice before and had numerous serious relationships and i gave him a chance. 5 years and 4dc's later we're ok

That he/she really likes wedding cake. FFS how can any of us know? Ask him/her what happened the last 21 4 times and see what answer you get. If all the XWs are dead then it might be advisable to run away. Particularly if your new pal is the beneficiary of all their life insurance policies. And if he wants you to take out joint life insurance as proof of your lurrve... basiclaly you ight be best advised to RUN LIKE FUCK.

Of course, it could be that your new potential fuckbuddy fiance is a humanitarian who has married a lot of refugees to stop them being deported. But you won't know until you ask.

if they were hot id be interested

I'd be wary!

lol madamez - as frank as always with her opinions .

you see part of me thinks - WTF! 4 of them, don't even go there girl.

The other part of me wonders if I should find out more.......

actually i have never asked my bf anything about his previous relationships so i guess he coiuld have been married four times

actually i know someone in same position, i was shocked and it did briefly put me off them.

What his name?. I've been out with a man that was married four times, there cannot be that many can there .

I gave him the benefit of the doubt. Turns out he'd been mostly unfaithful. I finished the relationship and he moved on very quickly which makes me think . I would decline the marriage proposal which will come quite soon into the relationship.

run for the hills

i would speak to the exes! only way you'll find out the REAL story.

maybe it depends a bit how old he is too i fhe is 86 then less surprising than 26

I would run a mile, judgemental yes but probably sensible.

Well, OP, if you have only just started bonking dating this person then is there really any need to worry? Are you focused on finding a new partner or just on having some fun. TBH if you are gagging to marry then he sounds like quite a good bet as he probably marries anyone who will suck him off. But if you're ust having a bit of fun, chill out and enjoy (but remember the warnings about life insurance).

lol he won't get very far if he does propose...., got at least another 1 1/2yrs before I'm legally not married (unless my ex suddenly decides to files for divorce on grounds of unreasonable behaviour by me LOL).

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God, I never judge
Smeone I work with is on her 3rd marriage
First one she was very young and married completely the wrong guy
Second one she had her kids with and split up when they were teenagers
3rd time lucky

I judge the woman at work more who is on her 1st marriage but he had been married b4 and left his wife to be with her
And the woman I work with who has been having an affir with a married man for about 20 years...

actually we didn't bonk - sat and talked all night (told him before we left the bar I wasn't out for a shag) and he didn't try it on either

lol I guess I do judge going by the 2nd part of my post

Lol Madamez. This one I knew would marry at the drop of a hat. He told me that one he was with after me (god knows how many more hes had since he lives away from me and doesnt communicate now) wanted to get married and he didnt. wtf you think she would have more sense.

I'd think he was an incurable romantic and an eternal optimist!

I don't think it matter how many times TBH- more WHY?

Everyone is allowed mistakes- it's what he is like now that matters and also if he has learned anything from the break ups.

That he liked women in white? Run very fast indeed.

oohh you lot are a bit harsh, i'm on my 3rd marriage and i'm a nice person

shit can happen to nice people you know!

I'm of the opinion that to be divorced once is unfortunate, twice is bad luck and three times indicates a worrying lack of insight into what went wrong the first two times.

Run a bloody mile (or more).

I'd run as fast as I could personally.

I would think 'Ross from friends'

i would give him the benefit of the doubt

How can people afford to get married so many times when we can't even afford to do it once

I'd see what his story was, i'm thinking maybe he's got a really low sex drive and that's why he hasn't stayed married and also why he didn't try it on with you?

I would think - I don't intend being number 5.

Has he got 4 sets of children too?

I'd raise an eyebrow ...........

I'd run I think. Four ex-wives to contend with...possibly even four more families. How would he have time for you?!

I'd be thinking serious problems in getting along.

not much staying power - probably bolts at first sign of trouble.

I think that sticking around would be a triumph of hope over expectation.

That they were either awfully unlucky or they had very poor taste in partners....or both

or perhaps he is the one at 'fault'. Can't beleive that someone is that unlucky

Remember - the fifth one got beheaded