Was a bit upset and immediatly reacted by shouting him, I wasn't actully going to mention it when he came upstairs but Id left it open in the background and he saw I had saw it.

Whatever.

BUT then he started saying 'you're a weirdo you'



I said why am I a weirdo??

He said because your getting upset over a picture,

i asked him why it was there...

he doesn't know

Im not really that arsed about th picture, I know its my PG hormones and the fact Im too ill to even brush my hair at the moment through morning sickness.

But the fact that he said I was a wierdo and got a bit nasty at me TBH is what hurts

Sorry, I meant, I feel like shite and unsexy anyways and felt a bit hurt.

What was the picture of?

Just usual, naked woman spitting milk or something all over her chest

YANBU - i'm not pregnant or hormonal but i wouuld go farking mad at DH. it is disrespectful to you imo and their is nothing wierd about it

sorry, Im not even sure why I posted, just feeling crappy at the moment

Thanks NJM, thought I was overreacting!

its nto milk is it

petit filou probably

Yea, it is milk actully, lol, its a glamour model shot, not a porn still.

The milk of life....

So, it's a porn picture? or do you mean it's a icture he has taken?

"he doesn't know "

liar liar pants on fire.

him not you BTW.

No!! He hasn't taken it, just some picture of one of these blonde 30FF models.

PMSL @ liar liar pants on fire.

I'm just pissed off he got hostile at me, I wasn't even going to mention it, but how does he expect me to act?!

That doesn't sound like a very glamorous glamour shot. She needs a pelican bib with that milk dribbling problem.

Maybe she has a drink problem?

Can you find one of a mega hunk with a cucumber down his pants and make sure he sees it?

Seriously, I think he's been really thoughtless and pretty crap tbh. He only called you weird because he was caught out and was using the whole passive agrressive thing.

You should find something that you know would make him a bit and leave it lying about so that when he asks what it's doing there you can say 'I Dunno' and just wander off.

Got any pictures of an ex and you having wild and hilarious fun? Put one under your pillow and then 'let him' discover it...

Maybe a man rubbing jam into his chin?

He got hostile because he feels caught out and guilty and silly... If it doesn't bother you just play it cool and let him work himself up!!

LOL Boco!

"I don't know" is the sort of excuse my kids came out with at the age of 5. What he means is "I don't know why I didn't hide it better"

Zephyrcat is right. The cooler you play it the more embarrassed he'll get.

Totally agree with Zephyrcat.

He defintely said it becasue he was embarrased and didn't know what else to say. He was probably saying to you what he thought you were thinking about him.

Anyway, soon enough he'll have someone spitting milk (or similar) all over him when your DC is born.

Hope your MS clears up soon. It's crap isn't it???

Good point BBM. Every time your baby pukes all over him you can have a laugh to yourself!

Disenchanted I found some porn on dh's laptop a month or so ago too- I am also pg and it really hurt as I just feel so unfeminine and blob like, not at all sexy. I did over-react a bit (I cried a lot and said it made me feel revolted, which it did, but when not pg it doesn't bother me in the slightest hence over-reaction for our situation) but fgs he didn't need to call you weird. That's just plain rude. Agree with others that he just felt guilty and caught out, dh was the same and was really shamefaced and apologetic after blustering his way through "god what's up with you?" for about 2 hours. Hope yours turns out to apologise also xx

on a positive note- if he has a fetish for women with milk all over their tits, he's going to enjoy you very much... throw away dem breast pads and let it flow freely.