Mumsnet logoby parents for parents
home search join my Mumsnet recipes reviews local sites blogs member discounts shopping classifieds contact a mumsnetter games
log in

Find discussions: search for messages topic list last 15 minutes last hour last day new messages unanswered threads
Active Convs: active conversations customise talk board hide & show threads & topics
My talk: threads I'm on threads I'm watching threads I started my registration log in
Useful stuff: getting started acronym list disclaimer contact mumsnet newsletters frequently asked questions
moon
Many thanks to everyone who has contributed to our Miscarriage Code of Practice recommendations for Alan Johnson, Lord Darzi all other UK health ministers. We've compiled into a list of 10 key recommendations here. MiscarriageStandardCodeofPractice
Mumsnet Discussions: Miscarriage : wish i was'nt feeling like this! (4 messages)
Add a message Watch this thread Flip this thread Add new thread in this topic
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Charliesmum22 on Wed 14-May-08 22:05:31
Oh wen, how difficult for you. I think what you're feeling is natural considering what you've been through and how desperately you must want a baby. You must not feel guilty at all for feeling like this.

I definately agree with Maureen, the fact that you can acknowledge how you're feeling is positive - and the fact that you are happy for your friend, no matter how awful the news is for you, just shows what strength you have, and how kind you are. I'm pretty sure most people in your position wouldn't even be capable of feeling pleased for their friend and would just be eaten up by jealousy.

I'm thinking of you and hoping that you're okay...
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By nandos on Wed 14-May-08 20:59:03
hi wen10,
i guess its normal to feel like that. most of whose had mc feel sad seeing preg women or when one of their family/relatives are preg or going to give birth.
dont get too upset cos' they didnt intentionally want to make you jealous or sad but just think that one day you will have a baby/ children of your own soon..
xxhugsxx
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By MaureenMLove on Wed 14-May-08 20:56:51
Perfectly, perfectly natural! And tbh, the fact that you can acknowledge how you are feeling is good. Are you able to share your feeling with your friend? She probably felt like hell telling you she was pg.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By wen10 on Wed 14-May-08 20:40:21
Hi everyone,
after several mc's i find it increasingly difficult to cope with other pregnant friends/family but feel so guilty that im sad and jealous!!! One of my dear friends has just called to say she is 12 weeks pregnant and i did the usual false high pitch voice etc....trying to sound really excited as i was trying not to just crumble but i feel so gulity feeling like this as i am truly happy for her i just dont seem to beable to cope with this and feel my whole body just slumping with totally dispair! Does anyone else feel like this? Sorry it's all doomy and gloomy.
sueXXX.


Add your message here

Message
Emphasis: To bold a word, surround it with asterisks, so *hello* will display hello. For underline use _ , so _hello_ gives hello. For italics use ^, so ^hello^ gives hello. To strike out a word, surround it with two hyphens either side, so --dog-- gives dog

Links and smileys: To insert a smiley face, , type [smile] or :)
For a big grin, , type [grin] or :o
For a wink, , type [wink]
For a shocked face, , type [shock]
For an angry face, , type [angry]
For an embarrassed face, , type [blush]
For a sad face, , type [sad] or :(
For an envious face, , type [envy]
For a sceptical face, , type [hmm]

Links The simplest way to insert a link is to enter the link itself, surrounded by [[ and ]]. So if you type [[www.mumsnet.com]], the link will display as http://www.mumsnet.com. If you want your link to display text other than the web address itself, leave a space after the address then add the text before the ]]. So "Look at [[www.mumsnet.com this page]]", would display "Look at this page".
Nickname:
Password:
To post a message you need a valid mumsnet nickname and password. If you have forgotten your nickname, click here for a reminder. If you are not yet a member of mumsnet, you can join here.