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Mumsnet Discussions: Baby names : Let rip girls- honest opinions please (63 messages)
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Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By jk1 on Fri 16-May-08 17:14:38
I like:

Nicole - aka Coco for a girl

or

Reuben for a boy

any reason I should avoid theese? My DH is not conivinced on Reuben. So told him the Mumsnet ladies would give us an honest opinion!
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By sweetkitty on Fri 16-May-08 17:15:06
I like both of them.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By RubyRioja on Fri 16-May-08 17:15:35
I quite like both.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By 2point4kids on Fri 16-May-08 17:15:40
Like Nicole and Reuben.. Coco is a bit odd though!
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By BoysAreLikeDogs on Fri 16-May-08 17:15:52
Both are fine.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By jk1 on Fri 16-May-08 17:19:18
Hehe Coco def slightly mad but I like to have cute shortenings - love Nicole for a 30 year old lawyer but not a teeny babe! And hate Nicky or Nic!
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By funnypeculiar on Fri 16-May-08 17:19:56
I know a repellent Reuben, so that biases me against it rather - but other than him I like it. It means red iirc- which may or may not impact if you have red hair in the family?
Can't say I'm personally keen on Coco, but prefer it to Nicky/Niki/Nicki permutations smile
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Anna8888 on Fri 16-May-08 17:20:02
Reuben is lovely. There is a little girl in my daughter's year at school called Livia (also lovely) whose older brother is Reuben.

Nicole is boring.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By funnypeculiar on Fri 16-May-08 17:20:16
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Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By cornsilk on Fri 16-May-08 17:21:03
Not coco! That's a cat's name. Or even a clown's.
Don't like Nicole either.
Love Reuben.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Nancy66 on Fri 16-May-08 17:23:37
Don't like Nicole - a bit page 3 girl.
Coco - sounds like a porn star or a breakfast cereal.

Reuben is great though.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Nancy66 on Fri 16-May-08 17:24:26
If you like Coco - what about Kiki...that's quite cute (an abbreviation of Katherine)
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By belgo on Fri 16-May-08 17:25:50
Nicole and Reuben are fine (unless you can't say your 'r's). Coco is a bit too cute, but I like it.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Spidermama on Fri 16-May-08 17:26:57
I love them all particularly Coco. It's not as whacky as all that. Some of you women are so straight it makes me larf. There are two Coco's in my ds's year alone.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By VacantlyPretty on Fri 16-May-08 17:27:04
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Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By luckylady74 on Fri 16-May-08 17:27:35
Lovely names - I was just watching TOPT2 and an odd 70s band were singing a song about a Coco and I was thinking what a lovely name it is.
Surely Chanel outweighs the clown connatation? But I named my dd after a showgirl/transvestite so I don't hold much with connotations!
Reuben is fab - are there biblical meanings with that name?
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By RainyWednesday on Fri 16-May-08 17:28:22
Quite like them both.

Not sure about Coco - think it might be borderline pretentious.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By PosieParker on Fri 16-May-08 17:30:07
I love the name Coco and Reuben.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Lizzzombie on Fri 16-May-08 17:31:35
I know 2 baby Reubens. I reckon its making a come back - you are "on trend" !!
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By scanner on Fri 16-May-08 17:32:12
Reuben is fab, Nicole is ok, Coco - fine, that's the thing with shortening/nicknames you can be slightly outrageous.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By LemonTart on Fri 16-May-08 17:34:58
I like both too. Bit different without being too different.
Personally I quite like Coco too. I have this vision of a sweet little toddler with big brown eyes and gorgeous dark brown ringlets tottering around in her mums shoes.. (although saying that... we did live next to a large fat pampered persian pedigree cat that was called Coco! )
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By cornsilk on Fri 16-May-08 17:36:28
'Coco, come in for your tea NOW!'
Could you really imagine yourself shouting that down the street in a few years time?
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Rocky12 on Fri 16-May-08 17:38:14
Love Nicola, very french and elegant.

Coco is the name of SIL's dog

Reuben is OK but would your son really thank you for a name like that.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By gingerwench on Fri 16-May-08 17:39:36
I love Reuben but too similar to DH's name to make our shortlist

Nicole is ok, Coco a bit interesting but would be known as coconut
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By jk1 on Fri 16-May-08 17:43:45
I can deal with being pretentious! ASlso so many dogs called Alfie and doesn't seem to bother the 100's calling their kids it!

Page 3 a bit worrying though anyone else think Nicole is Page 3???

I am a bit worried Reuben on the rise but think you need to be careful with boys and can't be too odd!
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By AbbeyA on Fri 16-May-08 17:47:59
Nicole is getting very popular as a name. Coco would get coco the clown or coconut.
Not keen on Reuben (I suppose he could shorten to Ben).
Sorry-you did say to be honest.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By catok on Fri 16-May-08 17:48:20
Do you say 'Neecol' (french way) or Ni-coal?
Cornsilk: or do you say "Cocoa - drink time"?!!
Reuben is different - probably won't be another in school...I think a boy or man could live with that..
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By smartiejake on Fri 16-May-08 17:51:18
Don't particularly like Nicole but Nicolette is lovely.

Reuben would not be my choice of name
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By ShowOfHands on Fri 16-May-08 17:54:16
I know several baby Reubens. It's definitely becoming popular. I don't like Nicole at all, my first thought was 'page 3'. I like Coco though.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Tatterdemalion on Fri 16-May-08 17:57:59
Coco was that limber stripper in Fame. Please don't call her that. Nicole is OK.

Reuben is OK.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By ElizabethBeresfordSW19 on Fri 16-May-08 17:59:51
I love Coco but not Nicole. I love Cordelia/Coco.

Reuben is a good name, really like that one..
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By ChicaLovesHerLocalGreengrocer on Fri 16-May-08 18:02:36
Not keen on Reuben, although I know it's making a come back now.

Nicole is nice, I also like Nicola.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By lljkk on Fri 16-May-08 18:09:02
Coco sounds like a porn star, Reuben sounds like a twat (u did want honest opinions, right!?)

Nicole is very pretty, though.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By ElizabethBeresfordSW19 on Fri 16-May-08 18:11:32
I don't think Nicole is page 3, but I think it's dated. But then, Melanie is dated and I think that's a lovely name. So dated just means knowing what you like despite the trends perhaps? Although Coco is very urban chic, but I like it.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By jk1 on Fri 16-May-08 18:11:43
Honesty fine - you can't ask for opinions here and not take the onslaught of 100's of probably hormonal women!
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By ElizabethBeresfordSW19 on Fri 16-May-08 18:14:51
Reuben was on my list when I was pregnant in 2002, so it's 'out there' already. Not self-consciously different (or twatty hmm at all imo)

Do you like Didi? that could also be short for Cordelia and is a little less deliberately cool than Coco. I am a FAN of coco though. I like it.

I also love Bibi but I think it's too close to baby. Lulu is too cutesy.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By ElizabethBeresfordSW19 on Fri 16-May-08 18:16:14
Gigi is sweet. But that is a bit pole dancer. I still like it though.

Sorry to have offended any mothers of Gigis grin
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By norkmaiden on Fri 16-May-08 18:16:24
Like Reuben and Coco, but Nicole is a bit dull imo.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By AHLH on Fri 16-May-08 18:16:40
The best looking man I have ever met is called Ruben (only one e in his splelling). (not DH! grin).

Like Nicole as grown up name and Coco as nickname.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By jk1 on Fri 16-May-08 18:18:03
I have a Lucinda shortened to Lulu! Very cutesy and prissy and she sooooo suits it!
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By loler on Fri 16-May-08 18:24:48
I like Reuben but probably wouldn't chose it myself. Only Reuben I've ever met was at Uni, he was very good looking and everyone fancied him. Haven't come across any at school or nursery yet. If he really hates the name he can call himself Ben.

Coco - love it, it's a nickname so she would be able to drop it easily at school/work. Not sure about Nicole, it's a bit 1980s (was the name I wanted for my dd when I was looking into the future at school).
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Nanoon on Fri 16-May-08 19:19:27
ooo ooo DS2 is a Reuben, love it love it. grin

Not sure about Nicole to be honest.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By WestCountryLass on Fri 16-May-08 20:12:26
Lovely names! I love Reuben but DH said no.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By pootleflump on Fri 16-May-08 20:15:28
Like Nicole

Hate the name Reuben, just sounds very pretentious to me- though I know it's very popular on here for some reason.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By myalias on Fri 16-May-08 20:16:58
I like Reuben and I know two adorable boys with this name. Be prepared for people to get the spelling wrong though.
Nicole is ok - Coco is not.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By kerala on Fri 16-May-08 20:21:27
Like Reuben very much its on our list.

Really dont like Nicole. Nicole is page 3 and the one I know is a trophy girlfriend WAG type.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By podglet on Fri 16-May-08 20:31:48
Love Reuben. Ds's godfather is a Reuben and a splendid chap.

Nicole - not sure about it but DS's nursery leader spells it Nichol which is interesting. Quite like Coco though.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By oxocube on Fri 16-May-08 20:32:24
I like Reuben but then I live in Holland and its a nice and popular name. Actually, my cat is called Reuben grin
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Nbg on Fri 16-May-08 20:33:09
Love love love Coco and Reuben.

Do not like Nicole.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By ggirl on Fri 16-May-08 20:36:53
don't like Reuben.

Like Nicole,but Coco ???not sure
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Janni on Fri 16-May-08 20:38:57
They're both OK. Reuben can be Ben if he doesn't like it when he's older.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By ggirl on Fri 16-May-08 20:39:13
Reuben is a middle aged man with blonde highlights and white slip on shoes
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By oxocube on Fri 16-May-08 21:13:16
and a yacht -ggirl, you forgot the yacht grin
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By ggirl on Fri 16-May-08 21:27:51
hahaha yes the yacht
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By dizzydixies on Fri 16-May-08 21:57:22
love them both

if nobody has suggested it (haven't read whole thread)

how about Nico as nn for nicole

I like Coco for Charlotte smile
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By dizzydixies on Fri 16-May-08 21:57:46
and rudy for reuben smile
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By CaptainDippy on Fri 16-May-08 22:01:00
Yuk @ Reuben, especially as my friend has a great big slobbery dog called Reuben. Hmmmm, jury's out on Nicole hmm Quite like it in a quirky kinda way. That ok!!?
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By pointydog on Fri 16-May-08 22:09:59
Not keen on Reuben.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Nighbynight on Fri 16-May-08 22:10:40
sorry, I hate both those names.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By harpomarx on Fri 16-May-08 22:14:40
ggirl, not getting the slip on shoes vibe for Reuben at all (but you made me laugh grin)

always liked Reuben or Ruben, international too.

Nicole is pretty and totally unpretentious IMO - I would wait and see if I felt like calling her Coco or not, think Nick and Nicky are fine.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By jk1 on Sat 17-May-08 08:58:34
The Ruben vision makes me giggle - as long as he takes mummy out on the yatch!
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By lucicle on Tue 20-May-08 21:28:22
I would go for Nicola rather than Nicole, I think. Nicole just seems a bit less classy/grown up, if you know what I mean. I really like both Coco and Reuben. If I wanted Coco for a shortening, I think I'd be looking for a different long name to shorten it from, really.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By ninedragons on Tue 20-May-08 22:33:26
Really, Lucicle? I think the opposite - to me, Nicole seems more upmarket than Nicola.


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