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14 mth ds wakes at 2, 4, 6 and 8 and feeds every time. am sure half of it is comfort and because i usually give in at 4am and bring him in with us, he does it to get back to sleep.
tonight DP is going in with a bottle of formula and my plan is to gradually reduce the strength until he's getting water for the 4am job. We're aiming for him to drop that feed, and I'll carry on with the 2am and try to gradually push the 6am back to 7.
Almost 17 months and only just(intermittently)sleeping through...I've now had more sleep in the last three weeks than I have since she was born, but she is a law unto herself as I can never tell what she'll do each night.
dd fed alot at night at this age but weaning onto solids was very slow due to egg and dairy allergy.
you can experiment with eliminating every other waking. ie, feed say at 11 pm but not at 12.30am but feed whenever he wakes the third time, even if just 20 mins later.
I found that it got her to sleep longer between feeds.
If at any time she started to cry louder rather than settle with cuddles I just fed her back to sleep as if she was too wide awake it would be ages to get her to go back down.
Elizabeth Pantley has a book called the No Cry Sleep Solution for Toddlers. You can have alook at that.