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: Calling all babies who sleep poorly/wake frequently - are you bf or ff?
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Now, I don't want to start some debate about which is best, benefits etc etc (there's another board for that!) and I won't even mention what I do with my DS, but I'm just doing some research and would be very interested to find out from you lot.
DS1 terrible sleeper until he was 6 months old (and we did CC) - excluisvely BF
DS2 - great sleeper from 3 weeks old - FF
DS3 - frequent waker/poor sleeper until he was about 8 or 9 months old (still not always brilliant now at 11 months), BF ex for 3 weeks, mix fed until 4 months, FF since then.
DS1 breastfed for 4 months - wakes 1-3 times a night until...now (he's 4 yrs).
DS2 (6 mo) breastfed until 4 months - waking 1-3 times a night and he's a huge eater.
IM(humble)E it doesn't make a difference how much goes into the childs stomach (whether breast, formula, puree or solids) - if they are genetically designed to sleep through or wake up frequently they will. I'm a crap sleeper, dp's not great and the kids are killing us. Hey ho.
DD is 12 months and has slept through only a couple of times. She was exclusively bf until 6 months, then mixed fed until 8 months and ff from 8 months.
dd1 - ff and great sleeper dd2 - ff and great sleeper thought not quite as good as dd1 dd3 - bf and a really crappy sleeper till 9months and is now sleeping 12 hours <<touches wood>>
DD 4 months - poor sleeper exclusively bf. My mum tells me 1000 times a day to put onto formula and she'll sleep better. But I'm stubbornly perservering with bf and v. tired.
Thanks girls, keep 'em coming. I'm not doing any sort of scientific research - I just need a bit of ammunition to show my Mum (gave the game away there, I'm bf and DS is a poor sleeper!)
when u say poor sleeper do u just mean waking frequently? ds is 15 weeks,bf, and will not sleep if put down (at the mo he is in my arms!!)not only that,at night he wakes every 2/3 hours i am also contemplating formula but the one time i gave it to him~made his windy tummy worse!!
ds 1 bf till 6 weeks mixed fed till 12 weeks, formula then on slept 7-5/6am from 6 weeks
ds 2 b/f till 12 weeks mixed fed till 14 weeks, formula then on slept 7-7 12 weeks
one woke in the night, b/f then went straight back to sleep, the other didn't.
I would like dc 3 and would b/f again for as long as we could. Both my children started sleeping longer through the night form when formula was introduced. They may have started that time anyway or it may have been the formula.
My dd is 8 months, bf and still up 2-3 times a night. All in this house are shattered.
Last night I finally let dh give dd a bottle of formula - she took 7oz at 11pm and had fed well (boob and solids) all day. Anyway - she was up about 4 times I think until 5am!
I don't think it makes any difference how they are fed. Dh now agrees with me! Some babies just sleep better then others IMO.
DS was dreadful sleeper til around 10 months and then wonderful ever since. DD brilliant from birth, slept 11 hours straight from 9 weeks.Both exclusively BF til 7/8 months. They'll both probably wake me up tonight now!
DD was appalling, appalling sleeper - exc BF but then turned a year of age and she just started miraculously sleeping through - it coincided with her starting to walk (or rather run around a hundred miles an hour). Now on the whole is wonderful sleeper. I had to have some return from her waking up 1/2 hourly to hourly every night for the first 6 months...sigh... Stopped BF at about 14 months.