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Mumsnet Discussions: Food : What foods do you really hate and couldn't eat even out of politness if given at a dinner party? (100 messages)
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Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By jaynz on Wed 14-May-08 21:08:48
ooh, faggots sounds disgusting, Got to add that! How could anyone turn down shellfish, it's my favourite
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By micci25 on Wed 14-May-08 19:42:38
liver, kidney and haggis! oh and spam, i dont really know what offal is but probably that too
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By ggirl on Wed 14-May-08 19:40:33
I don't like offal but tbh I have had it ingrained in me from childhood to eat whatever I am given,so I couldn't turn away anything at a dinner party .
I am far too polite.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By princessmel on Wed 14-May-08 19:39:23
mushrooms
shellfish
Liver and other similar things
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Thankyouandgoodnight on Wed 14-May-08 19:35:54
Goat's cheese
Oysters & giant clam things that are the size of snails.
Snails.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By JonesTheSteam on Wed 14-May-08 14:26:03
Not sure I could manage things like mussels or oysters.

Pretty much ok with anything else tho.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By lljkk on Wed 14-May-08 14:19:25
Vanilla, coffee-flavoured anything. I detest both flavours.

All the gross animal bits people have mentioned earlier (although strangely enough, I would give stuff like ants, haggis and worms a go).
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By TattooedGrrrl on Wed 14-May-08 14:16:03
and oysters- they look like phlegm.

i like faggots though smile with mash and veg.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By kayzisexpecting on Wed 14-May-08 14:13:35
Most shellfish, bananas, liver, sweetbreads and tripe.

Probably other stuff too.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By TattooedGrrrl on Wed 14-May-08 14:12:03
mushrooms in any form.

kidneys, heart or liver.

very rare meat.

runny eggs.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By wrinklytum on Wed 14-May-08 00:37:09
Snails
Shellfish
Offal
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By purpleduck on Wed 14-May-08 00:32:47
jaynz faggots are meatballs made from innards - heart, liver etc.

YUK!!!!!
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By SlackSally on Wed 14-May-08 00:09:37
Wow, some people are incredibly fussy.

I'd tell ye all to sod off and have a sandwich.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By BigBadMouse on Mon 12-May-08 22:05:30
Marmite - although hopefully not likely to be served at a dinner party - I just couldn't hide the wretching!
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Brangelina on Mon 12-May-08 21:59:42
Nooooo, cooked celery is the devil's work. I could manage raw celery if needs be but the cooked stuff goes beyond the call of duty.

I also hate any drinks with a bitter taste, like Campari. It's like drinking earwax. Ugh!
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By kitson08 on Mon 12-May-08 21:57:32
Liver
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By PeaGreene on Mon 12-May-08 21:56:54
Am astonished at how fussy some people are, this is amazing!

I'd turn down testicles, eyes, brains, etc, and possibly foie gras (but the latter only on principle and I don't know anyone who would serve it anyway.)

Am amazed by how mnay people are turning down perfectly normal veggies. I don't like celery but could manage if real politeness was called for.

LOL at potnoodle - what sort of dinner parties do you go to? grin
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By lilolilmanchester on Mon 12-May-08 21:55:05
nothing at all - so if you'd ever like to invite me, I'm the perfect guest!
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Cammelia on Mon 12-May-08 21:53:59
venison
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By sphil on Mon 12-May-08 21:53:19
Runny egg white - can't even think about it without heaving.
Anything made with milk with skin on - bleeeuuuurghhh.
These are the only things I don't like though.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By pickie on Mon 12-May-08 21:51:05
most offal, only would eat sweetbreads
aubergines, brussel sprouts, marrow,
sauce Hollandaise and eel
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By madrose on Mon 12-May-08 21:49:31
mushrooms - yuck
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Megglevache on Mon 12-May-08 21:49:18
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Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By jaynz on Mon 12-May-08 21:48:27
My SIL is super, super, super fussy and her husband is a vegetarian who only eats dairy and omlettes (doesn't actually eat veges) and there's no politeness when they come for tea
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By katwith3kittens on Mon 12-May-08 21:48:22
Meant drizzled not frizzled !
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By anniemac on Mon 12-May-08 21:46:58
Jellied eels springs to mind. Disgusting (I did try it - that foul aspic stuff)

Whitebait. (shudder)

Otherwise, hmmm, difficult. There are things I don't love but I might still serve them (blue cheese for example).

Generally I actually much prefer raw fish to cooked fish.

Can't believe sushi has been lumped in with monkey brains wtf?
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By jaynz on Mon 12-May-08 21:45:20
offal - just that smell...

whats faggots? I thought it was an incredibly un-pc, derogatory term for gay men and also a piece of wood, so the thought of someone eating either is a bit confusing!
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By katwith3kittens on Mon 12-May-08 21:43:35
Anchovies. Yuk.

but love goats cheese and aubergines, especially those slippery chargrilled ones frizzled in oil. Yummmm.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By bluefox on Mon 12-May-08 21:35:10
Dont eat meat. Love cheese but cannot eat anything cheese flavoured eg cheese n onion crisps or cheesy crackers etc
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Brangelina on Mon 12-May-08 21:28:20
Cooked celery
One particular type of seaweed (can't remember the name) as it is really too fishy
Anything that tastes of aniseed, apart from, curiously, fennel.
Anything slimy that slithers down

Oh, and meat and fish as I'm vegetarian.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By MrsMuddle on Mon 12-May-08 21:23:19
I could eat everything that's been mentioned already, but I couldn't eat marzipan if my life depended on it. Devil's food. Give me raw kangaroo bollocks and fish eyes any day!
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By cariboo on Mon 12-May-08 20:50:25
I'm a dreadful fusspot but...
boiled eggs or anything too eggy
sardines & any fish that tastes like fish
peas, peanuts (fair dues as am allergic)
overcooked veg
brains, tripe, liver - awful offal!
bad cooking

I would never actually admit to not liking something (too rude) but would find a way of not eating it.

Appalling, amn't i?grin
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By BreeVanderCampLGJ on Mon 12-May-08 20:47:17
Cou**tes

Related to the marrow....

I can not even type the word, my stomach heaves over.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By LaDiDaDi on Mon 12-May-08 20:45:26
Meat or fish as I'm vegetarian.

Eggs or mushrooms as I'm a pita smile!
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By DiscoDizzy on Mon 12-May-08 20:45:25
brussel sprouts, liver, kidney and faggots (pinched from someone elses list).
I'm sure there's more.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By lovecat on Mon 12-May-08 20:43:45
Most offal (don't mind foie gras or tongue) and chicken's feet, otherwise I will happily eat most things and can manage things I wouldn't choose to eat (sweetcorn, celery, puy lentils, blancmange) out of politeness.

Oh! And that godawful stuff in Dim Sum restaurants that looks like sausage rolls of white jelly quivering around gelatinous meat... tried it once out of curiousity (not even the guy pushing it around on the trolley could explain what it tasted like) and OMG it was vomitous!
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By PestoMonster on Mon 12-May-08 20:19:02
blancmange
rice pudding
creme caramel
liver
offal
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By TheFallenMadonna on Mon 12-May-08 20:17:01
Aspic jelly

<shudder>
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By KerryMum on Mon 12-May-08 20:08:36
lol @ lynette.

Weeeeeellllll.......

op didn't specify what country I'd be in!
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By ChicaLovesHerLocalGreengrocer on Mon 12-May-08 19:08:35
I think that now I would eat pretty much everything. Even most offal, as long as it's well cooked, eg steak and kidney pie.

However, a quivering, pan fried for a second foie was a no no at New Year. Luckily, it was at an old friend's house, so I didn't feel bad. I am actually so polite that I would have eaten it if I really had had to!
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By LynetteScavo on Mon 12-May-08 18:59:55
Oh yeah, kerryMum, I really hate it when people serve monkey brains, especially when they bring the monkey in live and take out the brains in front of you.

The worst thing I've had to force down at a dinner party was raw egg wrapped in ham, set in masses of gelatine. It was in Paris, so is probably quite normal there, and I'veno idea what it's called.

Thankfully I've never been given oysters, as I really couldn't.

I did enjoy a meal at a friend of my grandmothers once, when I was 12,and readily accepted when offered seconds. When the host had trotted off for my second helping, my cousin pointed to me that it was infact tongue. Funnily enough, I really couldn't eat anymore.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Desiderata on Mon 12-May-08 18:53:32
Marshmallows.

Round my way, that's the sort of stuff they'd dish up at a 'dinner party.'

And any Chinese dessert .. they are totally foul.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By FAWKEOFF on Mon 12-May-08 18:52:30
trifle
caviar
oysters
squid
liver
pumkin
butternut squash
rice pudding
tofu
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By TeenyTinyTorya on Mon 12-May-08 18:50:19
anything raw - sushi etc
seafood other than fish
stuff with vinegar in - salad dressing, beetroot, pickles, etc.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By BoysAreLikeDogs on Mon 12-May-08 18:49:32
peas blush
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By brightwell on Mon 12-May-08 18:48:13
Meat, fruit salad with banana's, any thing that has a chocolate & banana combination, bread & butter pudding.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By VictorianSqualor on Mon 12-May-08 17:50:54
Fish of any sort, dodgy cheese, mushrooms, liver, eggs.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By bran on Mon 12-May-08 17:36:38
Green peppers and raw tomatoes.

I really don't like creamy white wine sauces, but I will force some down if served at a dinner party.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Purlease on Mon 12-May-08 17:35:44
When I was 18 I hated seafood and was invited to a party where the food being served was cajun cuisine. Out of politness I ate the seafood gumbo and red mullet that was served up. I don't think it was politeness however when I asked for seconds smile.

Nowadays I would have to say no to beetroot and not much else!
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By tyaca on Mon 12-May-08 17:35:15
offal and eggs. when i went to meet my dh's best mates for the first time, they enquired in advance whether there was anything i didnt eat. i said eggs, cause saying offal too would prob make me sound a bit of a w*nker. turned up and there were a dozen chicken hearts sizzling on the barbeque.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Blu on Mon 12-May-08 17:34:45
oh, yes bloody goats chees - the current default item on any menu.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By KerryMum on Mon 12-May-08 17:32:27
Tongue

Anywho I'm a vegetarian...
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By KerryMum on Mon 12-May-08 17:31:58
LIVER

MONKEY BRAINS

SUSHI
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By AnAngelWithin on Mon 12-May-08 17:31:31
seafood cos im allergic, and salmon.

and i just dont like marmite, liver/offal, veal/game, any kind of pate or sprouts. <<PUKE>>
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By LazyLinePainterJane on Mon 12-May-08 17:29:28
trifle <boak>
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By vbacqueen1 on Mon 12-May-08 17:24:29
mussels/cockles/whelks or other shellfish of a similar ilk (with the exception of scallops - yum.)
Offal of any description but especially tongue (retching uncontrollably)
Lychees - ack ack ack, eyeballs ack!
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By roquefort on Mon 12-May-08 17:21:20
Any milky puddings including, rice, semolina, tapioca, creme caramel, creme brulee - anything else fine.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By sallystrawberry on Mon 12-May-08 17:20:02
sous - I love everything else dh's mum cooks, she did say to me when she gave it to me

"I don't think you'll like it, its an acquired taste"

but me thinking oh I'll eat anything thought I'd give it a try, it wasn't for me I gave it to dh.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By blinkingthreetimes on Mon 12-May-08 17:19:52
Liver and anything peach flavoured (I do like actual peaches though) lol
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Tatterdemalion on Mon 12-May-08 17:19:48
Murray mints. The only thing (so far) on God's earth I cannot abide. Thankfully they are a rarely used ingredient in dinner party dinners these days, so I'm safe.

I'm your fantasy (with regard to eating) dinner party guest. I eat everything and make noises of pleasure whilst doing so.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By mummyjaguar on Mon 12-May-08 17:17:03
salmon. It makes me feel sick just thinking about it. When I feed it to the DSs I have to let DH do it. Just the smell makes me heave.

Other fishy things I could force myself to eat.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By cosima on Mon 12-May-08 17:14:47
mayonnaise
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By bogie on Mon 12-May-08 17:13:47
I'm really fussy
NO
seafood
bannanas
mushrooms
under cooked meats I have to have them well done
Offal
I'm sure there is alot more too
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By piratecat on Mon 12-May-08 17:11:09
anything with goats cheese in.

you either love it or hate it.

fish things, esp rubbery bits.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Whizzz on Mon 12-May-08 17:10:45
cooked plum tomatoes out of a tin ...bleurgh
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By mumofmonsters on Mon 12-May-08 17:10:40
sprouts too <vom>
parmesan (smells like feet <vom>)
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Mellowma on Mon 12-May-08 17:10:35
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Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By chocolatespiders on Mon 12-May-08 17:10:32
seafood
liver
kidney
meatballs
offal
ox tongue
steak
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By FrannyandZooey on Mon 12-May-08 17:10:26
olives
rice pudding
goats cheese
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By jingleyjen on Mon 12-May-08 17:10:04
I agree with him you know, not something I would share with anyone (or eat myself!)
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By riven on Mon 12-May-08 17:09:00
brussel sprouts and swede
(am vegan too so ultra fussy)
But sprouts make me heave.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Mellowma on Mon 12-May-08 17:08:16
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Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Califrau on Mon 12-May-08 17:05:54
I am a nightmare to feed.
Nothing Spicey, not even vaguely.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Pixiefish on Mon 12-May-08 17:03:13
yes jingleyjen. Twas after I'd had my dd1 and we were chatting in the staff room and he told me about it. He was actually very very angry about it. He felt- each to their own but don't force it on me. Poor chap
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By colditz on Mon 12-May-08 17:00:25
Tripe. And that's it. Everything else would be guzzled down with every sign of enjoyment.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Blu on Mon 12-May-08 17:00:15
oysters
anythng raw including sushi / shashimi
I once mortified myself by asking my host to pop some slices of fabulously expensive beef served as carpaccio in the frying pan for a second or two - rare is fine, raw....bleugh.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By jingleyjen on Mon 12-May-08 17:00:04
shock pixie is that true!!!!
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Pixiefish on Mon 12-May-08 16:57:09
a former colleague went to a dinner party and was served the woman's afterbirth. needless to say he turned green at the gills and refused it
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By jingleyjen on Mon 12-May-08 16:54:18
semolina / tapioca...

thankfully not commonly served at dinner parties grin
although Dh is chinese and the tapioca seems to be a staple desert at his parents house.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By CrackerOfNuts on Mon 12-May-08 16:53:54
Peas
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By snorris on Mon 12-May-08 16:53:14
Fish served up with their heads on and seafood.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By mumofmonsters on Mon 12-May-08 16:52:31
...tomatoes...that's another
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Lazycow on Mon 12-May-08 16:50:05
Well nothing I can think of

Still thinking - nope nothing apart from foods that aren't usually eaten in this country (eg worms, sheeps eyes etc) though I love snails. Tbh I'd probably even try the sheeps eyes and worms out of politeness if cooked though I'd struggle if not cooked.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By mybrainaches on Mon 12-May-08 16:50:00
peppers and faggots
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By themildmanneredjanitor on Mon 12-May-08 16:49:24
tomatoes
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By StealthPolarBear on Mon 12-May-08 16:48:37
Tonight's special:

Fried kangaroo bits, with sauteed potatoes and creamed beans
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By mumofmonsters on Mon 12-May-08 16:48:15
i am very fussy so the list would be huge AND i hate eating in front of people so the chances of me being at a dinner party are small

(awkward me?hmm)

to answer the OP....i wouldn't eat any seafood, liver, beetroot, anything covered in loads of cheese, anything that smelled like feet (<boak>), erm....anything that isn't supposed to be eaten ie eyeballs, kangaroo bollocks.....there will be more, i just can't remember!
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Pixiefish on Mon 12-May-08 16:47:52
Offal- serious nono.
Wouldn't eat anything like snake or Kangaroo bits - euck.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By StealthPolarBear on Mon 12-May-08 16:47:47
well I'm vegetarian, so apart from meat or fish, the only thing i can think of is aubergine. Which is a pity, since that seems to be a staple of many veggi meals
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By welshdeb on Mon 12-May-08 16:47:46
green peppers
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Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Twinkie1 on Mon 12-May-08 16:45:57
Sweetbreads - bleugh - glands just don't do it for me would have trouble swallowing!

Oysters, muscles, clams, any manky shellfish!

Oh and pork - bleugh - uncle is a fireman and he reckons smells like human flesh when it is cooking - never eaten it again!

Oh and aubergine - hate the texture - same for kidney beans!

HHHHHMMMMMM am thnking I am rather fussy!
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By youknownothingofthecrunch on Mon 12-May-08 16:45:54
Mushrooms envy (think of it as a sick emoticon)
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By DefinitelyNotMARINAWheeler on Mon 12-May-08 16:44:51
Tripe
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Martianbishop on Mon 12-May-08 16:44:49
Sea urchin gonads. Ate them once and almost vomited at the table. Anything else I'd give a go
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By wessexgirl on Mon 12-May-08 16:44:35
Bananas and liver. (Especially served together).
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By thelittlestbadger on Mon 12-May-08 16:44:28
Anything with a sauce made from oranges. Apricots also upset me!
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Sunshinemummy on Mon 12-May-08 16:42:46
Ooh nothing. The only thing I don't like is milk.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By branflake81 on Mon 12-May-08 16:41:51
sorry - "politeness"
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By branflake81 on Mon 12-May-08 16:41:36
For me it would be prawns, beetroot or anything flavoured with honey.


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