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Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Psychomum5 on Fri 16-May-08 19:23:22
I am hungry, and there is nothing that I fancy in the house, nor in the shop, that I am not allergic too....

<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<WAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

it is NOT fair!!!!!!

I actually feel a lot better today from a week of being out of focus, and I have lost 4lb and actually want to regain it please ((shockwink)).......and THERE IS NOTHING TO EAT.....<sob>

((I am not going to listen to reason by the way, I want to have a strop and there is nothing you can do to stop me!!!!))

wink
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Psychomum5 on Fri 16-May-08 19:28:58
tut

know one cares

fine, I will have wine then!!!!

grin
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Psychomum5 on Fri 16-May-08 19:29:36
and I can't even bloody spell right eitherblush!!

no-one
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By nickytwotimes on Fri 16-May-08 19:29:49
strop away, strop away.
(is that any help?)
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Mercedes519 on Fri 16-May-08 19:30:56
I have the opposite problem - loads of food that I want to eat and I shouldn't because I'm not hungry and that Dairy Milk Caramel in the fridge is calling to me...calling...you want to eat me...you do...
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Psychomum5 on Fri 16-May-08 19:31:02
a little, thankyou.....

small
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By bratnav on Fri 16-May-08 19:31:25
I can give you some of my weight if you want it, there is definitely 4lb to spare smile
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By NotQuiteCockney on Fri 16-May-08 19:32:07
She's just doing it to get our attention - ignore her! grin

Seriously, I have got v fussy about food lately, and it's most tiresome, being hungry and not able to find anything to eat.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Psychomum5 on Fri 16-May-08 19:32:34
strop strop strop, and a few stomps......

I can;t have dairy milk either<sob>

arghghhhhh

you are all gonna be mean now aren't you and try n tempt me with forbidden food.....
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Psychomum5 on Fri 16-May-08 19:33:21
<<shifts uncomfortably>>

me, attention seeking.....nah....not me...

<<runs>>
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By MrsWeasley on Fri 16-May-08 19:38:37
share this with me Psychomum5?
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Psychomum5 on Fri 16-May-08 19:40:14
awww.....someone loves megrin
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By CantSleepWontSleep on Fri 16-May-08 19:44:37
You can only have a strop if I can have one too about not being able to eat anything due to gestational diabetes.

We can starve together.

<<strop strop>>
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By MrsWeasley on Fri 16-May-08 19:44:48
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Psychomum5 on Fri 16-May-08 19:54:16
<<evil eyes at the cheese and onion pringles....cannot eat 'em>>

CSWS....aww.....gestational diabetes.....<<hugs>>
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By duchesse on Fri 16-May-08 21:01:38
I know, I know. I generally just end up eating fruit, which is a Good Thing, or almonds, which are generally a Good Thing, because I have problems with wheat, milk and egg (great combination of staples, eh?) Unfortunately I do not lose weight. I have to run at least 3 miles a day to lose weight- even 4.5 miles of fast walking don't do it... Have taken to crunching ice again.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Psychomum5 on Fri 16-May-08 21:17:13
I can;t even eat fruit........

<<<<<<<WAIL>>>>>>>>>
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By chrissnow on Fri 16-May-08 21:22:10
Not being flippant, mean or anything negative. What can't you eat? (I'm asssuming allergies? buggers!)
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Psychomum5 on Fri 16-May-08 21:25:28
nuffin

well....

no dairy

no tree fruits

no fruits mixed up..ie....smoothies etc....

<sob>
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By MrsThierryHenry on Fri 16-May-08 21:26:41
My goodness, why are you so sensitive to food? Is it 'straightforward' allergy (if so, to what exactly?) or are you ill as well?
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By MrsThierryHenry on Fri 16-May-08 21:28:26
So you can have plain choc? Eggs? Wheat? Meat, fish? Rice - all grains? All vegetables? (I'm hoping I can create a recipe here for you - even if you are seeking attention!)
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By chrissnow on Fri 16-May-08 21:28:56
Chips? Crisp sandwich? Oh I do feel for you.
What do you have in the house that you can eat? (I am an expert in making meals from seemingless shite due to poverty grin)
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Califrau on Fri 16-May-08 21:29:54
I REALLY know how you feel Psycho.
I am sick to the back teeth of reading every sodding label. It's over 100 degrees out threr right now and DH as put a stash of oranges he picked this morning in teh fridge. They're looking at me. Can I have one? NO. In this weather all I want to do is lie in the shade and eat grapes. Can I eat them? No. Can I have a nice wedge of pineapple or even a sodding fruity icepop? No. Oh go on then, have a nice glass of water with icecubes in, you know you'll enjoy it hmm
<shuffles off to get another can of diet coke to try and lift somber mood>
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Psychomum5 on Fri 16-May-08 21:32:20
yup...am allergic...

cannot have milk in any form (could die<<eek>>), nor apples/pears/fruit in gerneral unless alone and only one per day!shock.

I am allergic to house dust mite too, so my allergy response is always high, meaning that I am always on the edge of annaphalactic[sp?], so feel sorry for myself a lot and unable to eat a lot at times.....and tonight it led to attention seekingwinkgrin!!!

I can have pasta and rice tho, and all veg, and all meat......as long as any sauces are dairy freewink!
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Psychomum5 on Fri 16-May-08 21:34:13
sending a mutual <<hug>> to cali....we can comfort each other in our self absorbed miserywink
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By duchesse on Fri 16-May-08 21:34:18
Oh Califrau, you're making me want to come to LA to see my brother now... It's a little cool and damp today. Still, bummer about not being able to eat fruit. It's about the only thing I can still eat without trouble. Don't know what I'd do if I couldn't eat them.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By MrsThierryHenry on Fri 16-May-08 21:36:44
Okay, what do you have in the fridge tonight?
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By duchesse on Fri 16-May-08 21:37:43
Rice cakes and marmite?
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By chrissnow on Fri 16-May-08 21:41:06
Can you eat tomatoes (sorry if I'm dumb)
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Psychomum5 on Fri 16-May-08 21:46:52
yup..can eat tomotoes

I have just had a cheese-less pizza (DH got my strop about lack of cheesey stuff and pizza so ordered me one)....as much as I love DH for it, right now, CHEESE-LESS PIZZA IS SO BLAHHHHHHH!!!!!!

I stick to safe boring stuff now like roast, spag bol without the parmesan, chips with plain chicken breast, salads, fish.....

tis the snacky 'lift me' stuff I miss...

icecream (can have soya icecream, but tis plain and boring after a while....I want ben and jerry's chew chew, or haggen dahz cookies and cream)...choclolate....plain is ok, but I want caramel or flake etc.....

biscuits

cake

<<sob>>

((oh, and good old apple pie and icecream))
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By duchesse on Fri 16-May-08 21:50:26
Is this a recent diagnosis? (cos if so, you are probably still suffering the cravings and may have to be patient for a couple of weeks)
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Psychomum5 on Fri 16-May-08 22:01:34
the milk one was a year ago this weak actuallyhmm...cravings at a peak maybe??

the others...yes....about 4wks ago, now got an epi-pen.

and feeling sorry for myself with the lack of decent cake etc!!!

<<sob>>

altho, wine still works wellgrin
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By chrissnow on Fri 16-May-08 22:02:45
What is the ingredient in cake that you can't have?
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By duchesse on Fri 16-May-08 22:04:17
butter I should think, no?
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By MrsThierryHenry on Fri 16-May-08 22:05:09
Aww, you poor thing! How about Delia's chocolate mousse (it's one of the BEST puds I've ever had - though I say so myself:

http://www.deliaonline.com/recipes/a-very-chocolatey-mousse,1401,RC.html

Basically it's eggs and chocolate. Use medium eggs and it's more of a velvety truffle texture (drool)

What about using onions, garlic, herbs, spices, beans and pulses in your cooking? These are all amazing ingredients, you can make quick and tasty dishes with them. E.g.:

Basic Italian tomato sauce:

1) gently fry 3 cloves garlic (sliced or crushed) in lovely olive oil
2) before they start to brown, add 2 cans tomatoes
3) cook until tomatoes crumble into the sauce and it all thickens

There. That's your basis for lots of meals: You can add chilli and chopped red pepper for an Italian Salsa Arrabiatta ('angry' tomato sauce)

You can add chick peas - instant pasta sauce with veg

You can turn it into a delicious bean/ veg stew by adding chicken stock and beans and veggies.

You can use it as a pizza sauce, then add lightly fried sliced peppers, courgettes, red onions, olives.

You can crumble chorizo (not sure if it contains dairy, though) into it and add courgettes for a lovely sauce over rice or pasta.

You can slice potatoes into it and add some lovely fresh spring lamb (on the bone) plus rosemary, thyme, red wine and bay leaves, then leave it on the lowest possible heat to cook for 2 hours until the meat virtually drips off the bone. Adding parboiled aduki beans gives it texture and more flavour (they soak up the lovely meaty flavours).

Is this a good start?

You could make a FAB broccoli-based sauce for pasta: (for approx 3 people)

2 heads broccoli, cut all the way down stem
1 red onion
3 anchovies
3 cloves garlic
2 pkts soya cream

Slice + fry onion, Add garlic and fry for 2 mins more, add anchovies and crush against the sides of pan with a spoon until they've crumbled.

Add broccoli + cover for 5 mins, mixing occasionally

Add soya cream and simmer gently for 3 mins more

Take out half brocc, set aside

Liquidise all the rest into a lovely green/ white sauce

Add whole pieces of broccoli, reheat and serve.

The anchovy/ garlic combination is what gives this dish its flavour.

Good luck, girly!
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Psychomum5 on Fri 16-May-08 22:06:47
awww...thierryhenry....thankyou....you are fab at caring(and recipeswink)

yup, tis the butter/marg in cakes that I cannot have!!!<<<argh>>>
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By chrissnow on Fri 16-May-08 22:07:58
Oh duchesse and psychomum - I am so thick blush although I have a recipe for a lurverly cake with olive oil instead of butter if that would be any use?
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By MrsThierryHenry on Fri 16-May-08 22:10:05
No worries, psycho! I hope you're able to find lots of exciting new recipes which you might never have tried before.

Best of luck!
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By chrissnow on Fri 16-May-08 22:10:21
Sorry to be glib here, but if we're talking instant snacky foods. Pot Noodles don't contain any actual natural real food so you can't be allergic to them?!?!? grin
(trying to cheer you up?) smile
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By lackaDAISYcal on Fri 16-May-08 22:11:33
swedish glace ice-cream is dairy free and yummy. It comes in vanilla, chocolate and i think they have added rasbberry to the range. you can get it in Sainsbury's

I feel for you; I have coeliac disease and snacks are just the worst.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Psychomum5 on Fri 16-May-08 22:17:25
lol, but pot noodles DO in fact contain milk protien, so out for me....see....this is how hard it is....I cannot even eat the crap food.

and yes, swedish glace IS yummy, but it is still not haggan dahz nor ben and jerrys!!!

((and sympathise with ceoliacs.....DS2 had to follow a gluten free diet for 3yrs, and I felt so sorry for him!!))
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Psychomum5 on Fri 16-May-08 22:17:52
but still....wine is yummygrin
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By chrissnow on Fri 16-May-08 22:24:34
oops blush shit. sorry. Am I the grandma from the Royal Family and just not getting it . . . "vegetarian? Can she have wafer thin ham?"
I still go with a chip buttie . . . use tom puree/ketchup/chutney or pesto instead of butter. Or a fish finger buttie (poss a midlander thing)
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By DontCallMeBaby on Fri 16-May-08 22:29:21
Mm, fish finger buttie, yum. I bet there's dairy of some description in a fish finger though?

Must be a nightmare though - I am only kind-of-allergic to random varieties of bean (inc the Canada navy bean, aka Heinz baked) and that's annoying enough.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Psychomum5 on Fri 16-May-08 22:32:39
I can have some fish fingersgrin!!
fish is my one safe food, thankgod seeing as I love prawns etcgrin
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By chrissnow on Fri 16-May-08 22:38:50
Paella!!! fish, chicken, rice I actually find this kind of thing snackable as its easy and satisfying to eat.
Fish 'n' chips.
Prawns are an ultimate snack food as they are possibly the quickest food in the world to cook.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Psychomum5 on Fri 16-May-08 22:40:19
can't cook paella....blush....ruined it the first and last time I tried!!!

prawns are the best and ultimate snack food, but boring for everydaywink.!!!
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Psychomum5 on Fri 16-May-08 22:40:39
fish and chips....yumgrin
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By chrissnow on Fri 16-May-08 22:50:51
Yeah I ruined childbirth first time round but I got better!!!! try again - sllllloooooowwwwllly - keep adding fluid in little amounts. Don't move from stove (or get an older DC to stir) 'tis easy.
Little weeny Thai style fish cakes with chilli/tomato dipping sauce? Make loads and freeze for snack times.
I made loads of little 'tarts' that I had to freeze loads of. . . . I used puff but I imagine filo pastry would work. (you can use olive oil instead of butter to 'layer' or even water. Little circles of pastry, dollop of pesto (make your own minus parmesan - will still be tasty) roasted veg, peppers, onions, tomatoes, corgettes etc with garlic olive oil, balsamic vinegar, herbs etc on top . . . mmmmm.
pitta bread with hummus dip.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By DontCallMeBaby on Fri 16-May-08 22:51:36
This is a fairly fool-proof paella substitute that doesn't seem to involve anything you can't eat. Not exactly instant gratification, very good tho.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By chrissnow on Fri 16-May-08 22:54:26
Ah but if it' freezable it's almost instant. (I batch freeze veg risotto as it satifies me in a bizarre - healthy but stodgy way)
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Psychomum5 on Fri 16-May-08 23:54:20
fanksgrin

will try next week me thinks, altho got to feel brave and less stroppy with food me thinkswink!
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Califrau on Sat 17-May-08 01:13:38
a real Pizza Marinara (droolscroll down to teh picture) is cheeseless and, quite frankly, to DIE FOR! OOOh I coudl just eat one of those right now. mmmmmm
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Psychomum5 on Sat 17-May-08 08:03:54
cali.......that looks so nice.......and all homemade, much bettergrin

now got to work out how to make pizza dough without breaking another mixer blush
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By duchesse on Sat 17-May-08 08:43:17
Gaaawd, Pizza- I've already got a serious wheat hangover from eating a load of bread yesterday (sometimes I have weak days, that are good to remind me why I avoid wheat in the first place).

If we had a meal together, pyscho, it would be like Jack Sprat and his wife...


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