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Mumsnet Discussions: Am I being unreasonable? : to HATE my neighbours smoking skunk in the garden (34 messages)
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Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By kerala on Sun 11-May-08 10:28:31
I must be one of the few people that dreads warm weather. My grim neighbours smoke skunk in the garden and play gangsta rap (despite having a 3 year old a new born). We cant have our windows or kitchen door open or our house smells like a drugs den (not to mention my fresh washing).

Arrgh just need to rant. Moving to the country in 3 weeks cant wait for the smell of cow dung over this stench.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By micci25 on Sun 11-May-08 10:34:36
well it is thier garden they are in not yours so you are being a little unreasonable but if it bothers you that much couldnt you ask them to limit this behavior to evening times? chances are they will prob just slam the door in your face though
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By themildmanneredjanitor on Sun 11-May-08 10:36:06
she is not being unreasonable at all!! they are tsaking illegal drugs!!!!!!!! and playing loud anti social music!!!!!

if you are moving in 3 weeks i would hold fire and then on the day you move report them to the police. i really would.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By mrsruffallo on Sun 11-May-08 10:41:09
I wouldn't report them to police- why?
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By kerala on Sun 11-May-08 11:11:05
I think they need tolerant relaxed neighbours. That is not us. This is my third summer of this and believe me it starts to get to you in the end. Watching your gorgeous toddler playing while the air is heavy with hash and all you can hear is f this f that isnt my idea of a great environment to grow up in.

Oh and they keep fierce staffordshire terriers (despite nobody here being allowed to under the lease) "for protection" which leap the high fence we paid for and shit in our garden. Because none of them work (they are on benefits) they are in all the time. Bet you are all jealous of my set up!
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By anniebear on Sun 11-May-08 11:23:18
bet your so glad your moving

feel sorry for the people moving in!!!

I get wound up with our neighbours and thats just coz he chain smokes and we sit in our garden and it stinks!!

Plus also the very loud music last summer, the kids throwing things over the wall, inc big piece of wood with a large nail in and golf balls!

really got to me, Just hope it doesnt start up this year

I feel so sorry for you

I , maybe would hang fire as you are leaving in 3 weeks

wouldnt have a problem reporting them for the things you have mentioned though
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By anniebear on Sun 11-May-08 11:24:12
Quote "I think they need tolerant relaxed neighbours"

Lol, sounds like a prison cell might be ideal for them grin
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By itsahardknocklife on Sun 11-May-08 11:38:29
You have my sympathy. Our neighbour's daughter (who lives there) has just had a baby, so neighbour has started smoking his pipe in the garden so the smoke isn't in their house. Now the smoke comes straight in our house instead. Charming.
Glad you're moving and I hope you have more considerate new neighbours.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By theAfkaUrbanDryad on Sun 11-May-08 11:49:30
Tbh, from what you've said, it sounds like the hash is the least of your issues with them

If you'd started a thread saying "AIBU to hate my neighbour's dog who is fierce and jumps our fence" then I might have more sympathy.

You're moving in a few weeks. get over it?
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By kerala on Sun 11-May-08 17:04:48
It wasnt so bad last year as the summer wasnt so great - they are pretty low key unless its sunny. Also this year am 12 weeks pregnant and the smell makes me want to heave whereas last year it didnt get to me so much.

Refuse to feel guilty about our buyer as we have declared to her that we have complained about them plus they are apparently being moved on shortly (pity their poor next neighbours). They are not bad people just dopey (literally) and very inconsiderate.

Anniebear think I would marginally prefer dog poo to planks with nails in!
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By phoebebouffet on Sun 11-May-08 22:23:30
If I didn't know most people on my street I'd say do you live on my street? It's not in a particular bad area, most of our neighbours are really lovely and respectable people, but our neighbours have a big rottweiler dog that barks and jumps up at the fence, not what u need with a 15 month old playing nicely in his paddling pool {cute emoticon} and a house that backs onto ours has blaring boom boom music playing never for very long (probably because someone complains) but why even do it in the 1st place? You are not being unreasonable at all and have every right to report them to the police, I don't know when the reclassification comes in but hopefully they'll be able to do more now it's going to be a class B. If they don't work how can they afford it anyway is what I would like to know.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By theAfkaUrbanDryad on Sun 11-May-08 22:26:29
No-one will care if you report them.

Seriously.

They'll get a caution, if that.

The re-classification is bollox if you ask me. No-one's cared for years.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By phoebebouffet on Sun 11-May-08 22:29:17
I'm sure you wouldn't lower yourself to their level but if you like hatching up revenge plans imagine their what their faces would be like if next their dope made you feel sick you were sick over their fence!
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By barnical on Sun 11-May-08 22:42:40
YANBU .. there polluting you with their ILLEGAL habit YUK!
By all means do as they wish in their own home as they see fit.. but don't make others put up with it!!
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By MrsWeasley on Sun 11-May-08 22:45:17
my friend was in her garden last week and was eating out there with the LOs and a near neighbour started shooting birds (and descriping to each other what they looked like dead and or still twitching)

Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By CocodeBear on Sun 11-May-08 22:49:34
I hate people smoking dope round kids.

When I was pg with DD1 we went for dinner at a friend's house. She lived in a house share at the time and her friends starting skinning up at the table when I was 7 mos pg and I couldn't believe they could be so thoughtless.

YANBU.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By MrsWeasley on Sun 11-May-08 22:50:36
oh yanbu (forgot that bit)
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By CocodeBear on Sun 11-May-08 22:56:08
LOL MrsW
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By KerryMum on Sun 11-May-08 22:56:45
call the police
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By molecularbreakdown on Sun 11-May-08 23:01:24
YANBU

At all.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By CoteDAzur on Sun 11-May-08 23:07:41
YANBU of course but I can't help but wonder how you know they are smoking skunk smile
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By MoreSpamThanGlam on Sun 11-May-08 23:10:06
YANBU
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By TheWiltedRose on Sun 11-May-08 23:11:13
Well at least there smoking it outside and not inside with there kids!
Your moving soon i dont see why you need to do anything its not going to be your problem.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By theAfkaUrbanDryad on Sun 11-May-08 23:15:48
pmsl Cote.

you said it was hash earlier in the thread hmm
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By MrsWeasley on Sun 11-May-08 23:48:20
oh I thought they were smoking skunk as in an animal on the BBQ blush (didnt read whole thread!!)

I'll get me coat!
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By MrsWeasley on Mon 12-May-08 00:00:53
I really did think that hence my post about a friends garden birds being shot! blush

Sorry just felt a need to explain blushblush
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By shouldbeworking on Mon 12-May-08 00:24:59
Well your post made me laugh Mrs W grin I was wondering where you thought they might have got the skunk they were smoking on the bbq and what they were going to do ith it when they had smoked it!!
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By MrsWeasley on Mon 12-May-08 00:49:42
I thought... well I don't know really I think I thought they must be in the US and it was odd but them again some people eat road kill.....

Oh I dont know I just suppose I have lead a sheltered life. MN is so educational grin
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By FreddysTeddy on Mon 12-May-08 08:22:11
YANBU, the people on this thread who say you are are probably the people on that other thread wittering on about how the word "chav" has now place on MN.

Let them live next door to fuckwits like this and then see how they feel.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By TinkerbellesMum on Mon 12-May-08 11:01:24
YANBU

I live in a low riser (3 floors, 6 flats) and my next door neighbour smokes cannabis outside the flat because his partner won't let him smoke inside. It's illegal to smoke there anyway because it's a communal area and a workplace. So I have to walk through the smoke with my daughter who, being premature, has sensitive lungs, I can't open my living room window because it's near the hall window so the smoke comes in.

I've told the HA several times and they promise to do something, but they never do. It seems to me that the only ASB that the police or Ha's worry about is the kids, you can be anti-social in your own home if you want to.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By TheDevilWearsPrimark on Mon 12-May-08 12:21:39
Skunk and Hash are two very different things.
Is all I think on the ,matter.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By VictorianSqualor on Mon 12-May-08 12:31:09
I heart you MrsW grin
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By anniemac on Mon 12-May-08 14:39:50
Mrs Weasley please don't get your coat that is so perfect grin
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Nighbynight on Mon 12-May-08 15:35:17
god kerala, I bet you are glad to be moving. Hope you have better luck with the neighbours next time.

I missed the word smoking and thought they had a pet skunk at firstblush


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