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Mumsnet Discussions: Am I being unreasonable? : to think that these supermarkets must be raking it in (64 messages)
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Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By mum2samandalex on Fri 09-May-08 13:59:31
with this whole recycling a bag scheme. I mean everytime i go to the shops ive even forgotten to bring my bags or havent got enough and end up buying more at 5p and sometimes 50p a time. This was the case for the women in front of me and behind me.And the ones i have brought have split already even the one i brought last night split when i was loading it into the car grrrrr. I cant see how this all helping the environment tbh its just another money making ploy.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Octothechildherder on Fri 09-May-08 14:10:25
Get real YABU
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Bumdiddley on Fri 09-May-08 14:13:49
YANBU. I use them as bin bags. So now I can either pay for bin liners or pay for supermarket bags. angry

Why "Get real" Octothechildherder???
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Octothechildherder on Fri 09-May-08 14:16:57
How can reducing the amount of plastic bags people use not be helping the environment? It does deter people having loads of them - some people put a couple of items in each bag - its disgraceful and wasteful.

Leave your bags in your car so you don't forget them and even better - use cloth ones. If the good quality supermarket ones break they replace them.

The sooner people realise it is about the environment the better.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By clarinsgirl on Fri 09-May-08 14:19:41
YABU, recycled bags do help the environment. M&S are giving the profits from theirs to Groundworks charity.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Bumdiddley on Fri 09-May-08 14:20:19
Hmmm...going to be smug here...I don't own a car...one of the biggest polution creators..practise what you preach
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By clarinsgirl on Fri 09-May-08 14:20:32
Also, generally they are 'bags for life' so if it splits you can get another for free.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By WowOoo on Fri 09-May-08 14:23:30
Hopefully, you'll soon learn to have enough in your car. After a while it's as instinctive as 'get your bags, lock the car, get a trolley' etc. All my cloth ones were freebies from the council and they don't rip and are very good for putting 2/3 bottles of wine in..!
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Octothechildherder on Fri 09-May-08 14:24:48
Well I live in a village and it is 10 miles to the nearest supermarket. I either pay the supermarket £5 to deliver it or I go myself.

Smug and ignorant are not the best qualities to possess btw.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By LMAsMummy on Fri 09-May-08 14:25:33
I don't have a car....but I still manage to take my own bags with me!!! And Bags for Life are great. And cloth bags ROCK!
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By southeastastra on Fri 09-May-08 14:25:35
the co op cloth one is really nice, quite big too and you can fit it in a tiny handbag. it's getting used to taking them with you when you shop. i suppose we'll all gt used to it eventually!
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By WowOoo on Fri 09-May-08 14:25:41
You are being smug Bum diddly! Would be impossible for me to do a weekly shop on public transport and lives miles away from supermarkets. You are very good though!
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Bumdiddley on Fri 09-May-08 14:34:12
Octo - if you are that enviromently friendly you would find a way.

Most supermarkets offer a discount if you get a delivery on a certain day. Sainsbury take back your old bags when they deliver your next bag of shopping

Ignorant? I never said I knew you circumstances, it's just a bit rich boasting about your green credentials then saying you have a car!!

WowOoo - Smug - shouldn't really have said that..just can't actually afford a car!!!
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By pinkyminky on Fri 09-May-08 14:35:40
If you are going to be shopping for things, so you will need something to carry said shopping in- I think it pretty logical.

I use cloth bags and the ones from sainsburys that fold flat. I always have a couple of bags in the pram and we keep some in the car, too. Over many years we have a collection of cloth, hemp,and canvas bags that carry a lot more stuff and last a very long time.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By rebelmum1 on Fri 09-May-08 14:36:31
What happened to the good old days when we used the old supermarket boxes thus recycling at no extra cost. Yes they have the green light to make a mint, but then so do the Gov by taxing petrol, without offering any alternatives on one hand, and centralising, closing rural post offices, schools and businesses and forcing people into their cars on the other hand..
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Octothechildherder on Fri 09-May-08 14:39:29
Yes but they still have to drive here - which was my point. You have to spend £70 to get a delivery discount here.

I wasn't boasting about my green credentials if you read my posts. I was stating that it was unreasonable that the OP should think that reducing the use of plastic bags doesn't help the environment - which is quite ignorant.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By stripeymama on Fri 09-May-08 14:41:23
The boxes had to go cos they are a fire hazard hmm

We don't have a car either, and we take cloth bags for the shopping, and the pushchair if its a big shop.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By cushioncover on Fri 09-May-08 14:42:38
The thick, green canvas ones from Waitrose don't look like anything could split them, ever! I just leave them as DD's feet then see them as I get her out the car. The cool bag one for fresh food is fab! I still have about 8 of them though plus kids so no way could I go without a car.

YABU!
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By FAQ on Fri 09-May-08 14:42:46
I'm a bit hmm at these comments of "you can't be green if you own a car"......some people NEED a car.

In many places public transport just isn't there, disabilities, not to mention some people whose jobs REQUIRE a car (I suppose you could argue that if they cared that much they should find a job that didn't need a car....)......
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By DaisySteiner on Fri 09-May-08 14:43:00
Hmm, we use old carrier bags instead of bin liners though (for non-recyclable rubbish, obviously, which we produce very little of). If I have to pay for carrier bags I'll use cloth ones, but just end up buying bin bags instead hmm
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Bumdiddley on Fri 09-May-08 14:43:34
I didn't say that reducing the use of plastic bags doesn't help the environment.

I asked you to explain your "get real" and found your reply galloppingly (is that a word??) hypocritical.

People like me are enviromentally friendly but accident wink while people like you pick and choose what is convenient to you grin
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By rebelmum1 on Fri 09-May-08 14:47:08
Yes but charging for the carrier isn't really about the environment is it? It's about making money.. the bags still go out there..the supermarket just have a great chance to make more money selling bags either way they are just capitalising at your cost.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By cushioncover on Fri 09-May-08 14:47:13
Oh it's bullshit to say why bother recycling if you drive/fly on holiday etc!

That's like saying, 'well if you cannot be wholly virtuous, kind and good the entire time then you shouldn't bother trying to be a decent person, cause that's just halfhearted. Be an evil cow instead!hmm
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By flowerybeanbag on Fri 09-May-08 14:47:24
YABU, keep decent cloth or similar bags in the car/bottom of pushchair or wherever and you will then have non-split bags you don't have to pay for.

It is a good way to help the environment to reduce carrier bag use by charging for them, but also, what's wrong with supermarkets 'raking it in'? They are there to make a profit, not for the general public good. Lots of them raise thousands for charities as well.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Octothechildherder on Fri 09-May-08 14:48:24
No the OP did and you said it wasn't unreasonable.

The get real comment has already been explained - and everyone has the choice about what they do to help the environment but I am not about to justify anything to you.

Enjoy feeling smug. I need to go and pick up my kids in my car.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By cushioncover on Fri 09-May-08 14:49:17
Stripeymama, I'm shocked that you can do a full shop just with a pushchair!
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Octothechildherder on Fri 09-May-08 14:49:34
And on a final note - you are clearly in the minority.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Bumdiddley on Fri 09-May-08 14:51:56
rebelmum1 has hit the nail on the head.

Octo - ooooo that told me!
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By riven on Fri 09-May-08 14:53:17
we use cloth bags but then I rarely go to a supermarket. Get veg box and shop on the High street.
And we got a car 2 months ago as dd is in a wheelchair and none of the buses are wheelchair accessible which is bloody annoying.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By stripeymama on Fri 09-May-08 14:53:42
Well its only for myself and 5yo dd, and we take a big rucksack as well. The only supermarket in the town we live in is Waitrose, which I can't afford to do a weekly shop in. So we go to the Lidl 2 miles away, luckily its a nice walk along the canal smile
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Octothechildherder on Fri 09-May-08 14:54:15
wink Rebelmum is right but if you take your own bags they don't make money.

I do love a good rant btw Diddley! Plastic bags and nappies are my forte!
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Bumdiddley on Fri 09-May-08 14:54:43
Clearly in the minority for what??

Oh you've gone...Do you own a 4x4?
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Octothechildherder on Fri 09-May-08 14:54:55
Stripey - do you live in Bath?
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By stripeymama on Fri 09-May-08 14:55:48
I wish!!!
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Octothechildherder on Fri 09-May-08 14:55:53
Everyone else (so far) thinks you should use reuseable bags.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By expatinscotland on Fri 09-May-08 14:56:17
'I don't own a car...one of the biggest polution creators..practise what you preach '

Actually, car use pails in terms of the pollution produced from heavy industry and meat production.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Octothechildherder on Fri 09-May-08 14:56:26
There's a canal, waitrose and lidl in Bath!
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Octothechildherder on Fri 09-May-08 14:57:31
And more co2 comes out of volcanoes than cars.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Octothechildherder on Fri 09-May-08 14:58:16
must get children
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By PenelopePitstops on Fri 09-May-08 14:58:21
surely you don't use all the bags that used to come from supermarkets as bin bags, no one has that many bins!!

or stop using bags in platic bins and pour rubbish into one central bin at the end of the week
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By riven on Fri 09-May-08 15:00:40
Octo, I now use disposables. all 4 kids were in terries but when number 4 reached 3, after years of washing terries I thought sod it. She's now 4 and we get free disposables off the Govt. She'll be in nappies all her life but I'm buggered if I'm washing nappies until i die.
I was very eco until dd came along.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Bumdiddley on Fri 09-May-08 15:03:09
Thanks 'herder. Me too.

'Pitstops, I use them as nappy bags in the bathroom with the ones dh gets from supermarket and give back Sainsburys ones with next delivery.

Never used a cloth bag. But as SAHH does 99% of shopping I don't feel guilty...
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Octothechildherder on Fri 09-May-08 15:04:33
Don;t set me off - I'm going to be late!
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Octothechildherder on Fri 09-May-08 15:05:34
About the government giving disps away not you giving up btw!
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Bumdiddley on Fri 09-May-08 15:06:20
Didn't mean it 'bout 4x4. Now that was bitchy...
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By expatinscotland on Fri 09-May-08 15:13:20
If you really want to go green, don't consume meat.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Bumdiddley on Fri 09-May-08 15:41:38
I like meat!!!!
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By LMAsMummy on Fri 09-May-08 15:43:25
I am with Riven, have a 7 year old with disabilities who uses nappies. Disposables. We try to 'do what we can' so have an allotment as an off-set! (and because children like getting muddy and planting stuff). And lots of recycling and walking and buses.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Octothechildherder on Fri 09-May-08 16:15:09
I'm back grin

LMA and Riven - I can completely understand that you need to use disposables and I don't think anyone would challenge it.

Diddley - 4 x 4 are standard issue here - the local council gives one away free to every household to save salting the roads!
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By MsSparkle on Fri 09-May-08 16:24:02
YANBU. I can't help but think supermarkets are using the "go green" issue as a ploy to make money. I think the solution would be to abolish ALL plastic bags. That way the supermarkets can't charge for them and people would just have to start remembering to bring there own.

I think people only forget there bags because there are plastics ones to use when you forget. If there was no back up, you would have to remember. You would soon start remembering your bags if you had to pay 50p per re-usable bag each time!
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By riven on Fri 09-May-08 17:57:06
If people want to write to their MP's and ask that as an alternative to disposables, poeple with disabled children have free access to nappy laundering services that would be great. I've been on at our council about this and they say there 'isn't a demand'.
Yes there is. Me.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By riven on Fri 09-May-08 17:59:24
I'm all for banning supermarket carrier bags. Those things use 60 million barrels of oil a year in the UK alone (according to the Ecologist). Thats a lot of oil on something that is used for 10 minutes and then thrown out.
Sure we'd still need to buy bin bags and nappy sacks etc but it would be a purchase as needed rather than mindlessly pulling carrier bags off the stack for the shopping.
In the olden days people managed without plastic carrier bags. Why are we all wusses now? (include many poeple being unable to walk half a mile and needing a 2 ton vehicle to transport a pint of milk)
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By alibubbles on Fri 09-May-08 18:12:59
I refused to pay for a bag today as the spotty yoof on the till told me I should be using my bag for life that was given out free at M&S. I don't have one, so suggested he gave me one to start me off and he said I can't as the offer finished on monday.This is the same spotty yoof who until last week used to pack only one or two items in every bag!

I made him wheel my trolley to my car and unload my shopping into the boot of the car, fortunately it was mostly wine. he didn't have much choice as I refused to pay for the bags, and he had rung up all the items. On the way to the car I checked my receipt and he had overcharged me for several items, so he had to go and get me the difference back.

i refused to return to the store as he wanted me to and I siad if he didn't I'd report him, so he scuttled off.

I would like to see the flat pack foldable boxes they use in french hypermarkets, because I hate the smell of the plastic bags.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Califrau on Fri 09-May-08 18:22:11
I have 2 fold up zip up carrier bags in my handbag. When I use them I unpack then and re fold them immediately so I am never without them. They cost $1. I usually have my cloth bags with me anyway - those 2 are just for emergencies. It isn't difficult to shove one in the bottom of your bag You could have an onya bag on your keys ffs., It's just getting into the mindset. My boot is also full of bags. If I have to leave my stuff in the trolley and nip out for my cloth carriers then so be it.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By expatinscotland on Fri 09-May-08 18:33:23
'Why are we all wusses now? (include many poeple being unable to walk half a mile and needing a 2 ton vehicle to transport a pint of milk) '

I wonder that all the time myself, riven.

I remember when I first lived in Europe in the mid 80s, and there were no bags at the wee shops.

People brought their own. Imagine that!
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By stripeymama on Fri 09-May-08 18:52:00
Alibubbles - I actually think that was quite rude. The 'spotty yoof' on the till is not the one who made the policy and he has no power to change it.

I'd be horrified to see someone insist that a till assistant wheeled the trolley to the car - you'd have had to wheel it anyway surely, even if the shopping was in bags?

If you don't reuse bags in these stores there is a price to pay - either financially or in terms of inconvenience, ie wheeling your trolley to the car. Its not the fault of the till assistant that you didn't bring any bags!
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By southeastastra on Fri 09-May-08 18:56:22
my mum never used any bags (iirc) she put everything into a wheeler then had a few of those shiny shopper bags, they had baked bean logos on them i think.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By soopermum1 on Fri 09-May-08 19:40:01
i have a granny style shopping trolley, bright orange it is. i believe they're very in vogue these days.

use bags for life but do still get a few carrier bags as i use them as binbags, and i use much less of those than before as i recycle and have a compost bin.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By cushioncover on Fri 09-May-08 19:55:25
Riven, surely the fact that there isn't such a high demand should make it easier for them to financially support such a scheme?

I would speak to your MP about it. The cost must be nominal to local government but what a difference to the families concerned. After all, if someone has a condition that's considered chronic ie long term but not life threatening then they get free prescriptions. Mind you, I'm always shocked that diabetics need to pay for their own needles! shock

As for the other point, there is just no way I could walk to the supermarket. At the till I can hardly fit all the bags into the trolley so if I walked, (it's about 3miles)I'd need to do about four trips! grin Actually more as I could only manage one bag at a time whilst I held onto to very willfull toddlers.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By cushioncover on Fri 09-May-08 19:56:29
two not to.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Califrau on Fri 09-May-08 20:52:21
It's standard practice in the US for them to take your cart to the car and pack your boot. Took me a while to get used to that. They also always pack your bags badly. I still have to beg them to use mine and not put things in plastic 1st and also to fill the bags up. It's standard practice to double bag and then put 2 items in <thud>. The also do not do things like pack all the frozen things in one bag. Most bag packers are spotty yoof who do not do food shopping. They should be trained!
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By mum2samandalex on Sat 10-May-08 14:50:35
i guess i will have to train myself just dont like the idea that the supermarkets are making money out of us in the meantime.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By expatinscotland on Sat 10-May-08 14:52:05
Well, supermarkets are not charities.

They're out to make a profit for themselves at any rate.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By kazbeth on Sat 10-May-08 15:42:04
charging for the bags is to make people aware of the waste. when the bags were free people would just take them without thinking. Hopefully having to pay for them might make some people remember to take their reusable ones with them. I just keep some cloth ones in the car. If I forget then sometimes I just pack stuff into the trolley and put it straight into the car and only get bags for the odd thing that I don't want on the car boot floor.


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