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Mumsnet Discussions: Style and beauty : I must have a DVF Wrap Dress - who has one ? (67 messages)
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Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Mojomummy on Thu 15-May-08 11:52:28
I love wrap dresses & have a very nice one from Wallis. Now I want a DVF one, although am somewhat horrified by the price.

Are they worth it ? do you feel fabulous when you wear it ?

Can I trust an ebay seller ?
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By MrsBadger on Thu 15-May-08 11:59:39
I borrowed one for a party from my jet-setting little sis

it was very nice but wasn't all that tbh...
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By NappiesGalore on Thu 15-May-08 12:01:20
i no longer have a firm enough middle section to wear a wrap dress. would cling to all the wrong bumps and curves.
sigh
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Gobbledigook on Thu 15-May-08 12:01:52
What's a DVF one?
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By motherinferior on Thu 15-May-08 12:02:23
Have you tried the Fenn Wright Manson ones? I have two, and they are really rather fabulous.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By MrsBadger on Thu 15-May-08 12:03:55
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By thebecster on Thu 15-May-08 12:06:13
I have two DvFs which I bought in New York when I was working in New York about 4 years ago - the dollar was low against £ back then so they were loads cheaper. I still wear them often and they're the favourite things in my wardrobe. They don't crease, the woven silk fabric keeps me warm in winter & cool in summer. I doubt if I'll ever afford to buy such expensive clothes again, so am treasuring them, hoping to still be wearing them for the next 10 years!
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Gobbledigook on Thu 15-May-08 12:08:21
Ahhh....
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By cloudberry on Thu 15-May-08 12:08:32
look here. I don't have one yet but would like one so will be interested to see if anyone else replies positively.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By soapbox on Thu 15-May-08 12:11:13
I have one which I really do like (although I am too fat to fit into it at the moment)! The way the fabric drapes is very good and some of the cheaper wraparound dresses don't quite have the same fit.

I did see some gorgeous one's from Phase 8 the other day though, and the one I already have from there is a great fit and a good DVF substitute!
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By motherinferior on Thu 15-May-08 12:12:07
Searches Phase 8 website...
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By LadySweet on Thu 15-May-08 12:26:09
I have one, it is gorgeous and yes IMO it is definately worth it material is lovely, pattern is gorgeous, fits beautifully, I love everything about it grin
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By FritziGreenEyes on Thu 15-May-08 16:23:56
Can only repeat what LadySweet said. Dh bought one for me in New York a few weeks ago and I don't want to take it off anymore. Even wear it over trousers on cooler days and feel fab!
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Prufrock on Thu 15-May-08 16:32:05
Mojo it really does depend on your figure. I am a size 12 but large of norkage (32G) and dvf just don't work for me - the neckline is very low cut so needs a cami underneath, and the cut on the sleeves is very narrow (or I have very fat arms). I go for Issa instead - still pricey but on a cost per wear ridiculously cheap (pru desperately tries to justify wanton extravagance) I bought my first one 3 years ago and must have worn it at least once a month since then in loads of different places.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Wuxiapian on Thu 15-May-08 16:50:21
I had one but sold it on Ebay as I got too lardy for it!

It was gorgeous: Beautiful, quality material and a lovely, flattering cut.

I found it extremely versatile - could wear it with trousers/jeans as well as a alone.

And, didn't see anyone else walking about in it, either.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Mojomummy on Thu 15-May-08 17:30:03
oooh I want one !!

I am 5ft 3, about 8st (well, at the mo 8st 4) with 34c boobs. I've got quite small arms, so should be ok.

The Matches website had a couple of bargains worth considering. Will also check Phase 8 & Issa, although like the idea of the DVF's being silk, are the other makes silk ?
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Prufrock on Thu 15-May-08 19:01:06
Issa are pure silk. I have my eye on this one. The fake wrap is amazingly flattering and no risk of flashing too much thigh
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By RosaLuxembourg on Thu 15-May-08 21:08:42
Every time I see a really lovely dress in a fashion spread it turns out to be by Issa. I would LOVE an Issa dress, but the price is way out of my league right now.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By SqueezyDiva on Thu 15-May-08 21:33:03
I bought one last month and I LOVE IT!!!

I have always despised the ubiquitous praise for the wrap-dress. I'm taller than average, long in the middle with big-droopy boobs. Wrap dresses just didn't work for me.

Recently I spent weeks looking for the perfect dress for a big occasion - a dinner.

I even went to Paris for a weekend - NOTHING. Then stopped in a DVF shop by chance...Voila.

Can hardly believe it is silk as it is so soft and pliable.

Just love it. Already planned ahead its next few outings. It can be glammed up or sobered down. Weddings or job interviews - it works!!

No, I do not work for DVF.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Prufrock on Thu 15-May-08 22:41:52
Rosa - I'm so going to kick myself if I'm you're a size 12, but there are somegood bargains to be had on Ebay
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By hatwoman on Thu 15-May-08 22:49:57
do you people not find wrap dresses flash too much leg? I just find my thighs making some rather unwelcome appearances. I dream of a sewn up wrap dress. (ditto shirt dresses)
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Flame on Thu 15-May-08 22:52:57
<realises prices we are talking and shuffles away envy>

I love wrap dresses - they are very flattering on me, show off norks and hourglassness without making my belly too big
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By fishie on Thu 15-May-08 22:54:03
squeezydiva i think you are just the right shape for wrap dress, long torso and lots of curve. smaller waist also v nice.

people of more solid torso or undefined waist do not look so nice.

i have seen fenn wright m wraps in (ilford) tkmaxx.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By cloudberry on Thu 15-May-08 23:25:14
How are DVF dress sizes? On the small or the large side?
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By controlfreakyagain on Thu 15-May-08 23:28:51
def on small side imo.... or am in denial about quite how fat i am.....
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Prufrock on Fri 16-May-08 09:34:52
hat - the classic issa ones are exactly that - a fake wrap at the top, with a proper skirt. They are ridiculously expensive, but worth every penny IMO - they are lifetime dresses.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By soapbox on Fri 16-May-08 09:47:35
I love those Issa dresses Pru - now I need to lose some weight so that I have a lifetime weight that I am happy with to match the lifetime dress!

I particularly like the sleeveless blue one.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By hifi on Fri 16-May-08 10:18:28
i have a black one, had it for about 6 years an worn it to death, if all else fails that goes on.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By iCod on Fri 16-May-08 10:21:13
i dont liek wrap dresses
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By iCod on Fri 16-May-08 10:21:33
dull middle aged cliche imo
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By soapbox on Fri 16-May-08 10:31:58
Some of us are middle aged Cod - C'est la vie!
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By iCod on Fri 16-May-08 10:34:24
me too

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Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By hifi on Fri 16-May-08 10:51:29
mine looks fab, get comments all the time, its my pulling dress ill have you know.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Anna8888 on Fri 16-May-08 12:39:27
Agree with Cod on wrap dresses - I would feel at least ten years older if I put one on.

I don't think they have much appeal to men, tbh.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By RosaLuxembourg on Fri 16-May-08 13:20:11
They appeal to my DH Anna! And as I am 44 I think I am old enough to wear them.
Prufrock - I had a look on Ebay - you are so right, there are some bargains there, but I am a 14 atm and have a large pile of size 12 clothes that I am working at getting back into!
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By BrassicaNapusNapobrassica on Fri 16-May-08 13:25:39
My sister has this DVF wrap dress She looks stunning in it - understatedly dressy. I didn't realise it was so expensive shock
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By RosaLuxembourg on Fri 16-May-08 13:27:07
I hope she bought it at the sale price shock It is stunning though.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By BrassicaNapusNapobrassica on Fri 16-May-08 13:29:57
I always feel well-turned out in a wrap dress. They do quite a bit for curves. Are you flat-chested Anna?
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Anna8888 on Fri 16-May-08 13:31:40
Not particularly, but I'm bony - wrap dresses hang off my shoulder and hip bones - not a good look...
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By motherinferior on Fri 16-May-08 13:32:56
You do have to be the right shape for a wrap dress. They work on me.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By noddyholder on Fri 16-May-08 13:35:07
I don't like them either but that ione in the link is very nice i think I have only seen patterned jersey ones before which are not flattering on anything less than a perfect body
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By BrassicaNapusNapobrassica on Fri 16-May-08 13:53:58
Anna888 - Poor you - that is a bit of a curse after 40.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Anna8888 on Fri 16-May-08 13:56:40
Better bony than fat grin. I can wear anything that isn't drapy, so it's quite easy really. My hipbones have always stuck out of my jeans pockets IFYSWIM so I'm quite used to it wink
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By BrassicaNapusNapobrassica on Fri 16-May-08 14:12:11
Agree better bony than fat but possibly better plump than bony after 40. Tight clothes can begin to look very cheap after a certain age. grin
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Anna8888 on Fri 16-May-08 14:21:28
Oh no you wouldn't want to be fat in Paris wink
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By noddyholder on Fri 16-May-08 14:27:38
bony not good after 40 though looks very ageing.Most of my friends are either plump and youthful or skinny and haggard Really unfair
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Anna8888 on Fri 16-May-08 14:29:02
I look like teenager LOL
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By noddyholder on Fri 16-May-08 14:30:23
envy unless you mean spotty with greasy hair
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Anna8888 on Fri 16-May-08 14:32:10
No, tall and skinny wink and healthy looking as long as I haven't drunk too much the night before - it's the alcohol and late nights that are the big giveaway these days sad
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By TheFallenMadonna on Fri 16-May-08 14:38:34
Careful of the skin though Anna. A bit of adipose always better for women of a certain age...wink
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By egyptianprincess on Fri 16-May-08 14:45:19
i bought my first dvf dress 5 yrs ago..have worn it loads and it's still in pristine condition and i get loads of compliments when i wear it...try and see if someone can get you one from the U.S. will work out much cheaper.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By iCod on Fri 16-May-08 16:07:01
i think they look liek a osue coat
on anyone wiht hips they make em look fat

t ehmaterial clings
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By BrassicaNapusNapobrassica on Fri 16-May-08 18:33:17
Anna888 "Tall, skinny, healthy looking" and such a lovely, self-deprecating personality.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Louandben on Fri 16-May-08 18:52:49
You can get them at bargain prices from Neimann Marcus here. As an example, the Justine dress (leaf print) is £248 here but when you convert the same dress in $ from Neimann Marcus it is £166 which is definitely a bargain. I have a dvf wrap dress and a couple of her wrap tops and adore them, they are so flattering and have been well worth the investment over the years, even as my size has fluctuated!

Suggest you check size and that you like it by ordering from net-a-porter if you cant get to the dvf shop, you can then return it -p&p will cost a lot less than from the US wink!
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By ggirl on Fri 16-May-08 18:54:39
brassica-nothing wrong with someone being ok with the way they look is there,or should everyone be loathsome of there body?
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Anna8888 on Fri 16-May-08 20:51:09
Brassica - I fear I think that self-deprecation is about as useful as accommodation of others as a life strategy smile
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By cloudberry on Fri 16-May-08 21:20:21
Well Mojomummy, inspired by your thread and the replies, I have taken the plunge and bought a dvf dress from net-a-porter. What about you? Come on .... take a deep breath and go for it ....!
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By BrassicaNapusNapobrassica on Sat 17-May-08 08:51:04
ggirl - Nothing at all wrong with acceptance of your body - just perhaps best not to bleat too loudly about your self-satisfaction.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Anna8888 on Sat 17-May-08 10:11:21
Oh Brassica, why do you think that it is a good thing to be self-effacing?
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By iCod on Sat 17-May-08 10:12:50
you are pretty smug though anna
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Anna8888 on Sat 17-May-08 10:15:44
You know what Cod? I'm not a smug person at all.

However, I read and read and read on MN about women who are unable to stand up for themselves because they have spent so much of their lives being done down by others and hence believe they are worthless, and I do want to show them that it is possible to believe in yourself and stand up for the life and person you want to be smile
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By iCod on Sat 17-May-08 10:16:29
i agree wiht you
btu a certain amount of modesty( to mates) is very attractive
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Anna8888 on Sat 17-May-08 10:19:15
In RL it is impossible to be as frank as on here, and in any case on here one "meets" people that one would never cross in RL...
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By NappiesGalore on Sat 17-May-08 14:53:37
lol
yeah, next time anna, say 'tall, skinny, healthy looking (but my toes are reet funny looking, cant wear sandals for toffee)'

grin
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By NappiesGalore on Sat 17-May-08 14:56:02
(i agree btw . dont see why a woman cant say shes tall skinny and healthy looking without everyone else getting their claws out. saucer of milk for table 2 perhaps?? wink)
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By My2Monkeys on Sat 17-May-08 15:21:04
I bought one in the January sale 2 years ago, and love it! I was a fair bit heavier then than I am now (actually I got pg soon after, and wore it in the early "bloated" stage) and it's one of the few things that fitted me really well both then and now (a stone lighter than when I bought it).

I actually found that it's quite forgiving of "lumps and bumps", thanks to the patterned material. Also, I love that it's so versatile - works well on its own or over a little vest and jeans!
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Mojomummy on Sat 17-May-08 20:11:09
Oooh cloudberry which one did you buy ? I was trawling the net last night for reasonable priced ones...I think I might get DH to treat me to one for my 40th next year.

In the meantime, I might have to make do with a Boden one...

Mind you, did see a reduced ISSA one, which looked v nice


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