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Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By trace2 on Sat 31-May-08 18:41:19
what happened ?
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Meeely2 on Thu 22-May-08 13:38:02
stuarts, think those are her OPK tests, the preg ones have been removed.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By stuarts on Thu 22-May-08 13:33:45
If th picture on your profile now is the most recent one then I can very clearly see quite a strong line on both of those tests
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Lulumama on Thu 22-May-08 12:48:44
i think you can safely assume you are not pregnant now, wait for your period and restart the pill tehn. you have just had an odd cycle. it can happen
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By YouWillBeDeleted on Thu 22-May-08 12:45:15
Very true. You've nagged me into it :-) will give the doctors a call this afternoon although the first appointment wont be for a few weeks! Terrible doctors but because they have turned all the local gp practices into one huge centre there is no where to change too.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By PinkTulips on Thu 22-May-08 10:41:46
speaking as a serial procrastinator when it come to gp visits, go soon. i've ended up so much sicker a couple of times because i put off going.

better to go now and be told there's nothing wrong than to put it off for months and be told it would have been a simple problem but now it's serious.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By YouWillBeDeleted on Wed 21-May-08 11:51:30
PinkTulips - I keep meaning to go to the doctors and not quite getting round to it. I will go though, probably have some hormonal thing going on.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Squack on Wed 21-May-08 10:53:19
I can't see anything either.

I think you'll get your period in 2 weeks.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By beaniesteve on Wed 21-May-08 10:39:05
I can't see a line.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By NatalieJane on Wed 21-May-08 10:20:01
Pucca, sorry have missed this, shit hit the fan...

I also can't believe he won't do a blood test.

If I were you, I'd be changing GP's pretty sharpish.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By PinkTulips on Wed 21-May-08 10:18:22
pucca, just looked at your profile.

hate to say it but i see a line more clearly on those rom today than i could on the ones the other day hmm
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By PinkTulips on Wed 21-May-08 10:16:19
surely it's a sign of some underliying medical problem if your cycle buggers up to that extent YWBD (love the name by the way)

have you seen a doc about it and had a smear done?
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By YouWillBeDeleted on Wed 21-May-08 01:11:49
It sounds a little like my cycles have been lately. I get lots of symptoms from around day 18 - 24 (sore boobs, nauseas etc) then 2 days of light bleeding, then nothing until day 43ish when i ovulate and then my period arrives on day 55. First time it happened i was convinced i was pregnant and spent a fortune on tests but this is the 3rd cycle in a row the same now so i'm used to it.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By nappyaddict on Wed 21-May-08 00:47:47
can't believe they only did a dip test - you can do that yourself!! wait for 2 weeks and if still no period then demand a blood test.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By pucca on Tue 20-May-08 22:58:54
I dunno PT,

I did another test today, pretty sure its neg, have put a pic in profile AGAIN, god damn.

Just wanna get back on my pill, where all is safe and normal lol. grin
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By PinkTulips on Tue 20-May-08 19:49:26
bugger pucca, can't believe he won't do a blood test. i mean whatever is going on certainly isn't a normal cycle.

fingers crossed you're back to normal soon though, if you did lose a preg and ov'ed in the last week you should have a period in the next 2 weeks.

pill can't harm a baby even if you are can it? i mean it's the same hormones as a preg releases into your system so can't be much harm in starting now if you want (feel free to correct me, have never taken the pill myself so probably talking out of my ass!)
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Meeely2 on Tue 20-May-08 16:16:21
if i came off the pill in the past, i would always go back on it again on the first day of next period so that i knew i was covered from day 1. maybe if you just stop thinking about it all and distract yourself somehow your next period will happen as normal and you can go back on the pill.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By pucca on Tue 20-May-08 16:02:25
Meeely2...Thats really sweet of you, i will see what goes on the next few days, may email you later on if i need to test again if thats ok?

I now just want to get back on my pill, so should i just take it again?

Not going to TTC, not after all this, has just reminded me how fecking stressful it all is, and i seriously cannot be doing all this again, i am bankcrupt from buying bloody tests grin
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Meeely2 on Tue 20-May-08 15:58:45
pucca, do you need anymore hpt? i have some strips, identical to your opk's but for preg that i got off ebay - I am TTC, but can spare a couple if you want some to save for later on if AF still don't show up when you expect it next?

emclayton AT yahoo DOT com if you want them....
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By pucca on Tue 20-May-08 15:48:50
I rang again, spoke to the doctor and it was neg, they only did a dip type test <thats helpful>

Who knows <shrug>

The thing is i want to go back on my pill so what do i do?

I asked about a blood test and he said no just wait to see if i miss my next period.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By stuarts on Tue 20-May-08 15:47:12
any news yet?
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By nappyaddict on Tue 20-May-08 14:46:36
it's 2:45 - have you rung yet? you were supposed to find out between 2 and 4 weren't you?
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By mags98 on Tue 20-May-08 12:05:38
Sorry missed you last post while typing this one. If you can get the results of the one you did yesterday this afternoon try phoning later, not tomorrow) then great. If not, as above, just do one yourself.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By mags98 on Tue 20-May-08 12:03:20
When did you last do a home PT?

Rather than doing lots of OPKs (which are rather meaningless and can give false results if you have recently been pregnant or think you might be) then just do a PT. It is the answer to that you need to know, not the OPK. The home ones are just as sensitive as the ones the hospital use.

If your home PT is definitely negative then it is unlikely to be anything to worry about. Chances are that you had a very early pregnancy that did not continue, miscarried and are no longer pregnant. If it is positive or if there is any doubt about if it is positive or negative, then you need further assessment and rather than just repeating another urine PT at the GP then what you need is a blood test.

I really would not bother doing any more OPKs until after your next period, you are just wasting money and getting false/meaningless results. When I had my first miscarriage I started using the OPKs at about 3 weeks afterwards and they showed positive for weeks and weeks even after I had my next period.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Disenchanted on Tue 20-May-08 11:53:23
Don't phone tomorrow, phone again at about 3pm.

FWIW i don't think the OPKs mean anything, LH is different to HCG and just because they can detect HCG doesn't mean thats whats happening here, could just be LH,

Its not unsual to OV so early or late, I got pregnant this time round about CD23 i think!
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By pucca on Tue 20-May-08 11:19:29
<argh>

Impatient as i am, i thought i will act daft and ring early to see if the results were back, she said nothing is showing on the computer so to phone tomorrow now!

This is seriously doing my head in now!
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Squack on Tue 20-May-08 11:17:44
I think that with an annovulatory cycle you can bleed abnormally for want of a better word mid-way through the cycle. Attila is a better person to seek advice from on that score.

The OPK's are hard to read unless they're the digital ones. I wouldn't go back to the interpret yourself ones tbh. An LH surge is usually predicted 12-48hours before Ovulation, but if you have interpret the lines yourself you can extend that I guess.

Good luck for the results!

Are you deciding to ttc now anyway with all this broo-har from the last month? grin
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By pucca on Tue 20-May-08 11:08:41
I know that OPKs get darker leading up to ov, but on CD 8?? as i have said earlier, from past experience i ov later on, more like CD 18.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By pucca on Tue 20-May-08 11:07:23
Well, i will just have to see what the doctor says later on. smile
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By stuarts on Tue 20-May-08 11:02:33
this is what happens to my OPKs in the few days leading up to ovulation, they gradually get darker
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By artichokes on Tue 20-May-08 10:07:40
I have been away from this thread for a while but shock to see the mystery is as yet unsolved. Just wanted to say that I get positive OPKs for about 9 days of my cycle hmm which is apparantly not unusual.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Meeely2 on Tue 20-May-08 10:06:13
tis all very strange pucca I must admit - and I am waiting with baited breath for your results between 2 and 4.....better than any bbc drama this!
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By pucca on Tue 20-May-08 09:54:46
Would i go 8 weeks without ov-ing though??

I don't have problem cycles at all normally, when TTC with my dd and ds, i used OPKs and the first month of using them, got pos, had sex once = pregnant!
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By pucca on Tue 20-May-08 09:51:23
Morning!

Got to phone between 2 and 4pm, so bit more waiting yet.

I have just done another OPK and it is stronger than the others hmm

Just put a pic on to show you....
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By NatalieJaneIsPregnantAgain on Tue 20-May-08 09:12:49
Do you normally get BFP's/feel pregnant with a anovulatory cycle? (Don't know much about them TBH)

And would you get a OV surge for more than 24 hours on an OPK? (Don't know much about them either!! LOL)
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Squack on Tue 20-May-08 08:46:03
do you know I think it could be that you have actually had an anovulatory type cycle and that you are O'ing now.

If the test from the gp's is -ve I bet you get your period in 2 weeks.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By NatalieJaneIsPregnantAgain on Tue 20-May-08 07:50:17
Morning all

<set's up breakfast picnic and pours the tea>

When does the surgery open Pucca?
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By pucca on Mon 19-May-08 14:11:56
Yes i have, the top pic is an OPK the other one is a pg test.

This has been going on a while, as i having been getting faint BFP/negs for a couple of weeks.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By nappyaddict on Mon 19-May-08 14:08:41
oh i didn't realise you hadn't tested using a pregnancy test.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By pucca on Mon 19-May-08 14:00:35
NA... OPK are ovulation tests and HPT are home pregnancy tests. smile
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By nappyaddict on Mon 19-May-08 13:57:04
what are opks and hpts?
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By pucca on Mon 19-May-08 13:33:52
There is also this from FF here
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By cece on Mon 19-May-08 13:30:35
pucca

this is from peeonastick.com

Can I use an OPK instead of an HPT to detect pregnancy?
Check out the OPK-as-HPT section for a detailed answer. The short answer is: an OPK will turn positive if pregnancy hormone is present, but there are many reasons an OPK could be positive. To be sure, you should use an HPT to detect pregnancy and an OPK to detect ovulation. Mixing and matching can get your hopes up.

There is more info on the website but it was quite long, but you may want to look it up.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By pucca on Mon 19-May-08 13:29:33
Lulu...That is the question grin
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Lulumama on Mon 19-May-08 13:28:30
there are definitely lines on them, but if they are not HPTs, how accurate are they in terms of detecting HCG?
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By pucca on Mon 19-May-08 13:26:40
Sorry i got mixed up then (i wonder why lol)

Proper period on the 25th March, and light period for 2 days on the 12th May.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Lulumama on Mon 19-May-08 13:18:38
no, NJ, not seen LG&Ts news... i wonder what it could be ? hmm grin
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By nappyaddict on Mon 19-May-08 12:52:38
if this comes back negative ask for an internal scan.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By pucca on Mon 19-May-08 12:40:46
NA...Thats the thing, if i am i would either be 8 weeks or 4 weeks. My last proper period was 25th March, then i had a 2 day light bleed on the 4th May.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By nappyaddict on Mon 19-May-08 12:37:07
if you were pregnant how far gone would you be now? i know someone who was still testing negative at 16 weeks!!
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By NatalieJaneIsPregnantAgain on Mon 19-May-08 12:07:18
Those lines are going to be the same strength when dried...

I really think all you can do now is just wait for the test results from the doc tomorrow.

Still feel free to rant on here I have given up trying to guess what's going on though! I can't fit it all in my head with shake ache! wink
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By pucca on Mon 19-May-08 12:03:30
Ok, pic added, its the same as yesterdays, top one is yesterdays bottom one is just now...

Top one has now of course dried (nice) lol.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By NatalieJaneIsPregnantAgain on Mon 19-May-08 11:58:02
Sorry, I am here, just shovelling eating ice cream! It is hard work typing one handed...
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By NatalieJaneIsPregnantAgain on Mon 19-May-08 11:53:22
OPK = Ovulation Predictor Kit, used for predicting when you OV, but, it an pick up on hCG (pregnancy hormone), though should never be used as a definate answer to pregnancy.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By pucca on Mon 19-May-08 11:53:17
Will give it a couple of mins then will take a pic NJ....
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By pucca on Mon 19-May-08 11:52:54
Ok, have just squeezed a wee out lol, i only did my sample for doc at 10.20 though, so only been 1.5 hrs since last did a wee.

OPK test for ovulating meeely2...but there is some speculation as to whether they pick up HCG too.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Meeely2 on Mon 19-May-08 11:51:23
wot does opk test for? cos i can def see line on the opk and the tesco preg test.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By NatalieJaneIsPregnantAgain on Mon 19-May-08 11:49:25
<taps foot impatiently>
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By pucca on Mon 19-May-08 11:44:57
Just out of interest i am gonna go and do another OPK.....
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By NatalieJaneIsPregnantAgain on Mon 19-May-08 11:44:42
But you felt pregnant even before your period would have been due, so it can't all be in your head.

'Tis all very strange....
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By pucca on Mon 19-May-08 11:44:04
Anyway i am a selfish cow grin

How are you feeling? grin
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By pucca on Mon 19-May-08 11:42:37
This is what i mean, none of it adds up does it? there is just no logical explaination. hmm

I said yes, i do, but it could now be my mind playing tricks. WTF is going on???? ARGH
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By NatalieJaneIsPregnantAgain on Mon 19-May-08 11:38:11
If the light bleed started on the 12th, then you would now be on CD8 (if not pregnant) It starts from the first day of your period. But, that doesn't explain anything anyway, because you've now got another pos OPK...... hmm

So even the MC/pregnant again theory doesn't fit, because you wouldn't have OV'ed again.

It is almost as if you have been pregnant all along, your hormones started to build up, then decreased, then built up again.....?????? <head explodes> That just doesn't happen, does it?

Well, all of this second guessing isn't going to help is it? I think you need to go back to the surgery tomorrow morning - don't just ring for the results, go down there - obviously if the results come back pos, then you do need to insist on a scan, because you'd have no idea of the EDD, and equally, if it is neg, you need to camp there till he gives you answers, seriously, this can't go on for much longer, put your foot down, and tell him you're not leaving until he does something to try and work out what is going on, it is the only way you are going to find out anything, and put a stop to all of the worrying and pissing about!

What did you say when he asked you if you felt pregnant?
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By pucca on Mon 19-May-08 11:28:42
I had a normal period on the 25th March, then i had this 2 day light bleed on 12th May.

I got a pos OPK on the 4th May, then had the light bleed 7 days after that (last Monday)

pmsl.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By NatalieJaneIsPregnantAgain on Mon 19-May-08 11:21:59
Fora? For.... tut, am not with it this morning, LG&T has knocked me for six....! Lulu, have you heard her news?
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By NatalieJaneIsPregnantAgain on Mon 19-May-08 11:21:17
But the bleed was longer than 4 days ago wasn't it?

Am I getting mixed up or did you get a pos OPK a week or so ago as well? (read fora too many of these threads to remember every little detail!)
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By pucca on Mon 19-May-08 11:21:03
Also that OPK i did on 4th May ( 1 week before the bleed) was definately pos, as i panicked as dh & i had been amorous the night before, as i thought i was already pg so it didn't matter, the next day i got a pos OPK.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By pucca on Mon 19-May-08 11:19:10
That is what is weird, when i was TTC ds, i was ov-ing between cd15 and cd20. Ds i actually got pg late in my cycle, not normal at all.

This would be CD4 if all ok, and i am not pg or anything else.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By NatalieJaneIsPregnantAgain on Mon 19-May-08 11:17:00
If the small bleed you had was a proper period (albeit a very short one) would you normally be OV'ing around now?

But even if that is the case, and you were never pregnant, all of the BFP's don't add up....

<thinking aloud>
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By pucca on Mon 19-May-08 11:13:26
Oh well, waiting game till tomorrow now ho hum, another day won't kill me! lol, especially after 5/6 weeks of this hell. grin

Thanks once again to you all for still listening to me ramble. grin
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By pucca on Mon 19-May-08 11:11:52
No i said earlier, i had no HPTs left, so did a OPK for the hell of it, as there has been some whispers that OPK can detect pg too.

That OPK has 2 strong lines, i don't know where you see other lines. grin
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By NatalieJaneIsPregnantAgain on Mon 19-May-08 11:09:19
Pucca, they may well do a sensitive pregnancy test on it. I think that basically means that they will check for any leval of hCG, and if it is higher than 5, then you would be considered pregnant - might be wrong on that though.

I am still wondering if you did MC, but then got pregnant again straight away, it would explain all of it, and you might find that in a couple of day's you'd get a stronger BFP?
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Lulumama on Mon 19-May-08 11:06:29
yes, is that not a HPT?

at the end of the day, your period has gone AWOL, and you need to know why !

but the odd thing is, on the whole, if you were pregnantm, you would expect strong BFPs
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By pucca on Mon 19-May-08 11:04:59
LM...You mean the OPK? that is the top pic i think.

I thought that they will just do a pg test, but surely that won't show anything if i am not getting pos on ones i have bought hmm

I told him about the weird bleed, and he just said "do you feel pg?" and smiled.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Lulumama on Mon 19-May-08 11:01:06
pucca, i can see lots of lines on that top test.. not sure which one would be the BFP one though !

they will do a pregnancy test, not sure if it is more sensitive than HPT.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By pucca on Mon 19-May-08 10:59:21
Well i went, held my wee and gave him a sample of my FMU, he said he will send it to the lab, and i have to ring for the results tomorrow between 2pm and 4pm.

What kind of test will the lab do then? just a normal pg test?
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By NatalieJaneIsPregnantAgain on Mon 19-May-08 10:06:44
Good luck, don't leave his surgery until he does something to find out what is going on (or if he get's the police wink)
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By pucca on Mon 19-May-08 10:05:49
I am going in a min, its open surgery in the morns so you can just go in and wait.

Have a feeling he is going to think i am a bit mad though lol.

Will post when i get back smile
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By YouNeverKnow on Mon 19-May-08 09:25:03
the pic at the top i can see a line. good luck!
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By eleveld on Mon 19-May-08 09:21:28
Good luck at the doctors today. Let us know how you get on
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By NatalieJaneIsPregnantAgain on Mon 19-May-08 09:07:46
I can see the line on the tesco one, v v v faint but it's there.

When is your appointment? (You had better have one by now!!)
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By pucca on Sun 18-May-08 23:17:51
The saga continues and gets weirder grin

I have no hpts left, so thought hey i will do a OPK, and have added ANOTHER pic lol, now if nothing is happening and i take it as all is normal would i get this result on OPK on CD 4?

hmm very odd.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By PinkTulips on Sun 18-May-08 00:20:57
think, it could be worse. in our mothers' and grandmothers' times you couldn't even approach the doctor til you'd missed 2 or 3 periods shock

my mom had the same problem with hormones and tested neg (1983) and was sent home and told to come back if she still hadn't bled in a month

i very much hope he does more for you than a urine test, it's such an odd situation he really is duty bound to have you checked out. like others have said, ectopic pregs have quite similar symptoms and if he misdiagnosed that he'd be at serious risk of litigation so he has to cover his ass
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By pucca on Sun 18-May-08 00:12:55
I really feel for you, as going through this for me has been a complete nightmare, as i said earlier with my dd & ds it was straight forward, dd i tested pos on day period was due, ds i tested neg day period due but got a pos 4 days later.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By pucca on Sun 18-May-08 00:11:07
I seriously don't think he will send me for a scan, i think the furthest it will go is i take a urine sample in, it will be tested prob come back neg, bobs your uncle and fanny is your aunt, and that will be that.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By PinkTulips on Sun 18-May-08 00:09:13
{{{hug}}} and a virtual cup of tea and a biccy.

if the doc tried to fob you off again insist that action be taken, everything you're saying screams out that something is going on, either a preg or a MC, either way you absolutely need to be scanned and if he won't do it insist on a differant doc.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By pucca on Sat 17-May-08 23:56:03
The way i am feeling... mmm

I feel like when i test there is going to be a strong BFP, but there isn't hmm and to begin with we were not TTC or anything and had the signs to say i thought i might be, i still have those signs now but now i am looking for them because of what has been happening and no strong pos test... i don't know.

My biggest sign personally when pg with my dd and ds was from before i got a pos test i just couldn't sleep on my stomach (odd i know!) and i love sleeping on my front, its the one sleeping position i know will get me off to sleep if i can't settle iykwim, and i have this feeling now, but as i said before no real answer as to what is going on. sad
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By PinkTulips on Sat 17-May-08 22:29:48
never bothered.

tested with ds at what later turned out to be 10 weeks and got an extremely faint pos. my one and only pos preg test ever grin had tested the day before and that test was neg but looked like a line if you squinted

interesting i may be but i'd kill to be able to just test like a normal woman, we're thinking about a third and the thought of all that faffing around and wondering 'am i? amn't i? i feel odd' is making me tense already!

how are you feeling in general btw? do you feel well or do you feel like somethings going on? the only conclusive clues for me both times were the heightened sense of smell and the metallic taste in my mouth
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By pucca on Sat 17-May-08 21:55:21
PT...Did you ever get a pos in that pregnancy then? or did you not bother after the scan as that confirmed how you were feeling?

Very interesting grin
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By PinkTulips on Sat 17-May-08 21:44:39
well, not that rare apparently.....
when i went for the scan she couldn't get a pic on the abdominal scan but told me her SIL had had neg test but a healthy baby so offered to do an internal scan for me rather than recalloing me in 2 weeks as was usual practice!

was more relieved than shocked... i knew something was happening and if i hadn't been preg i would have just had a MC so was such an incredibal moment hearing her say 'well there's definitely a baby there'

can just about make out a faint line on the bottom pic from today. vv faint though.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By BigBadMouse on Sat 17-May-08 21:34:24
Just seen this is still going on for you sad.

I definitely agree you should go to the doctor just to get peace of mind. That Tesco's test is a def negative to me but that doesn't mean to say you aren't for sure does it?

You need a blood test I think.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By pucca on Sat 17-May-08 21:17:05
PT...That kind of thing must be fairly rare though, eh? bet you got a shock when they said you were 9 weeks grin
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By pucca on Sat 17-May-08 21:15:34
I did do yet another test this afternoon, after holding my wee (was in work! lol), a tescos one, have put a pic in profile AGAIN grin

You are all wonderful, helping me with this, very touched by the amount of MN'ers who have kept checking in to see what has happened etc.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By PinkTulips on Sat 17-May-08 20:57:54
went to docs at what turned out to be 9+3 as hadn't had a period in a fair while and had all the syptoms. hadn't done a test myself as we were ttc so was fairly certain.

PT came up -ve, as did the other 4 he did and most of the hospital ones. they did a quantitive hcg and it came up 18, so not technically +ve but not -ve either. was told i'd MCed even though i'd had no bleeding. they sent me for a scan and it turned out i was having a perfectly healthy preg... just no hormones hmm
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Cadmum on Sat 17-May-08 20:55:41
I don't know why I erased my original post earlier today because I can see the line. I just thought that it was an ovulation predictor rather than a pg test.

I think that you are pg. (as if a random MNers vote counts for anything).
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By calvemjoe on Sat 17-May-08 20:47:26
Hey Pucca, I've followed this thread from the begining. Just wanted to say, ny friend thought that she was pg but got a -ve test and the dr booked her in straight away for a blood test. Your dr needs to sort himself out, you've been messed around enough. Good Luck.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By pucca on Sat 17-May-08 20:22:02
Thanks everyone, i promise i WILL go to the doctors on Monday.

PT...What happened with you again? did you have any bleeding or anything?

The more i think about the AF i had the more i think it is just so weird for me to only bleed 2 days, i have never had this since started my periods at 12 yo.

I have no more hpts left now anyway, and i am not going to buy anymore, spent too much on them this month already angry
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By PinkTulips on Sat 17-May-08 20:11:48
pucca, trust me on this, you can't possibly get weirder looks than i did at the gp's and hospital when i went in convinced i was preg and got neg tests grin the amount of condecending, patronising and downright rude comments i got were unbelievable. and guess what, i was right they were wrong [smug]

at least you have actual medical symptoms and you've got pics of the positive tests you've done to show them.

THEY WILL TAKE YOU SERIOUSLY!

you need to get checked out in case it's the best or worst case scenario

if it helps, write down a list of all the points that make you think somethings going on and read it out to them, i'm a waffler too and it helps me remember what i'm supposed to be saying instead of rambling off on tangents and fogeting the more important points til i'm halfway home.

good luck
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By magnolia74 on Sat 17-May-08 08:14:29
Oh Pucca! Go to the bloody doctor!!!!

I mean it, on Monday ring up, make the appointment and go. Please smile
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By NatalieJaneIsPregnantAgain on Sat 17-May-08 07:58:22
Pucca, I think the situation has changed now though.

If you look at all of the threads on here about people going to the doctors because they are a week off their period starting, but they just 'feel pregnant', or other stupid (IMO!!) reason's, the GP's must be inundated with obsessed TTC'ers, and I should imagine fed up of hearing the same thing over and over again. But if you go and tell him exactly what has gone on, make it clear that you are not TTC'ing, so that cancels out any non existant symptoms, he should take you seriously.

You do need to get this sorted, how much longer can it carry on?
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Jenski on Fri 16-May-08 20:22:03
If you are worried about the Dr not listening, maybe write it down so he/she is clear about what you are saying?
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By pucca on Fri 16-May-08 20:19:47
There is nothing i can do till Monday now, and then i guess i am going to have to go aren't i. <sigh>
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Lulumama on Fri 16-May-08 20:11:58
so, what do you intend to do? just wait it out? doctors are there to help you with medical issues !
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By pucca on Fri 16-May-08 20:11:20
They were HPT, none left know though. Have got a couple of OPKs left out of the test bundle though.

All this messing around is doing my head in now, with my dd & ds, it was simple, missed a period, did a test BFP, no fart arsing around.

I know i sound a idiot not going to the doctor, but i know i will waffle all this out and he will just sit looking at me like i am a loony.

This period i have had is a weird one though, 2 days of bleeding weird pinky coloured blood, and now nilch hmm
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Lulumama on Fri 16-May-08 18:51:31
ah, pucca, i knew it was you smile you need a doctor to check you out , a scan and serial blood tests to be sure . you had BFP but then some negatives, and then spotting, it is all a bit odd really. esp. if you think you got another BFP
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By mags98 on Fri 16-May-08 18:49:19
look I have just joined this thread - you need to get this sorted, see your GP. They will NOT think this is stupid.

The possibilities are

1. You were PG, had a MC and still have a faint positive test (mine was positive for over a month after my first MC)

2. As above but you have not passed everything completely and so are still bleeding.

3. You could still be PG (HCG at a high enough level causes a positive OPK, so that could be an explanation)

4. This is the one that is the most important and needs ruling out. You could still be PG but it is not normal, for example an ectopic pregnancy. Funny, erratic, light bleeding with a positive PT makes alarm bells sound very loudly.

In any case, you need checking out. Blood tests and probably a scan. Just go and see your doctor, get checked out and take the sample, please! Or at the very least, do another one yourself.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By stuarts on Fri 16-May-08 16:28:08
Please, please, please just go to the doctors

Good luck
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Teuch on Fri 16-May-08 11:21:42
Morning! Was that hpt or ov tests you posted? I can't se the lines either, but I know how tricky it is to capture it on camera!
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By NatalieJaneIsPregnantAgain on Fri 16-May-08 10:40:36
Just wish I could either physically take you to the doctors to get it sorted, or give you all the answers myself.

Are you going to go to the doctors?
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By pucca on Fri 16-May-08 10:34:56
Yes pinky red, it was just a spot yesterday when i thought it had come back, its definately gone.

Thanks NJ, you are a love smile
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By NatalieJaneIsPregnantAgain on Fri 16-May-08 10:19:57
I just don't know what else to say, except to see your doctor. I am stumped!

The slight bleeding again doesn't fit in with what I said before, is it proper red blood?