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My mum had two after having her first (me) in hospital.
My aunt had two.
And of my friends, one has had four (first when she was 18), one has had two (and one in hospital), and one has had three (and no midwife for the first!).
Yes, I had DS1 in hospital and DS2 and DS3 at home. I had to see the consultant before "approval" for DS3's home birth because DS2 weighed 10lb, but he said it was fine, and DS3 was a mere 9lb 4oz.
I had DD2 and DD3 at home. DD3 was a slightly more complicated delivery, and I was thankful I was at home because the midwife managed to shift her when the second stage stalled whereas in hospital with DD1 the same issue ended in a hideous cascade of intervention.
I have had two and the last one was the best because I had already had one homebirth and had an even better idea of how I wanted things.
That being said, my waters broke when I was fully dilated and there was meconium and an ambulance was put on standby for me. But even that was OK as it was very well managed and thankfully everything turned out jsut fine.
Sweetkitty when I told someone the other day DS2 was born at home and I was planning it aagain they said 'oh I would be too scared, so many things can go wrong you know'
Dd and ds2 at home. Both god births - dd was 10lb, popped out in half an hour (3.5 hours altogether, mw in the house for less than an hour in total!).
Ds2 10lb2, longer slower labour, but fine really (Ok it hurt like hell, but wasn't traumatic). No stitches for either, and no pain relief either - just being relaxed at home really helped.
i wanted to have ds2, ds3 and ds4 at home but they were all two weeks or more overdue so i ended up going into hospital, however i laboured how i WANTED to, and had three lovely births even tho they were in hospital, a bit of gas and air, i stayed mobile and gave birthupright etc, ds4 was born in the hospital birth pool, his birth was VERY quick and he was ten pounds and thirteen ounces, no stiches tho
Should add, dd was born 14 days overdue - I had a lovely doctor who said there was ABSOLUTELY no problem going over the 12 day cutoff time for induction, and I think he would have let me go longer with monitoring tbh. Interestingly she appeared 'early', covered in vernix etc (although as I said 10lb), ds2 born at 8 days over seemed a bit 'post mature' - wrinkly skin, seemed to have lost a bit of weight just prior to birth etc. So dates aren't everything.
Disenchanted, I'm also hoping for a second home birth. DD2 (about 7 pounds) was born at home but it was a horrible birth - the best bit was the fact that I was at home!
I'm hoping for an easier birth next time...aren't we all?