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Mumsnet Discussions: Breast and bottle feeding : haven't bf-ed in public yet (7 messages)
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Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By LookingForwardToSummer on Sat 17-May-08 11:55:04
but i want to soon - haven't been out much yet! i'm thinking of pre-preparing some good replies just in case of annoying comments (but i hope they won't be needed). if some one did say something i'd be so cross i might just splutter and that would look like i was embarrassed when i wasn't iyswim. what do you think of 'oh, i'm sorry you find it embarrassing' and then carrying on?
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By StealthPolarBear on Sat 17-May-08 12:00:52
That sounds fine, or just a simple "I'm feeding my baby"
Don't expect comments though - I've only ever had smiles and nice comments.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By LookingForwardToSummer on Sat 17-May-08 12:07:48
i'm not really expecting comments. had a really odd dream last night where i had a one woman campaign to 'make bf normal' and i went round feeding in the most public places i could think of - and no one noticed! think i was still angry about the awfull matthew wright prog (which i didn't even see)and awful posters mentioned on another thread.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By WrongSideOfTwenty on Sat 17-May-08 12:10:13
I tended to get smiles and a few embarrassed looks, never got any comments.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Fillyjonk on Sat 17-May-08 12:13:07
I have now been bfing for the best part of 5 years (3 kids, though not all at once...)

I have NEVER had ANY comments, EVER

And I am not especially discreet, much as I'd like to be

good luck, but honestly, it will be FINE

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Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By jellyforbrains on Sat 17-May-08 12:13:48
I've never had comments. Most people don't notice you're doing it. Was still a bit nervous the first time I did though!
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By BumperliciousNeedsToSleep on Sat 17-May-08 13:31:18
I have been doing it for 10 months and have never had a negative comment ever, in fact I have had some lovely comments, especially from older ladies, and I get lots of smiles too

You just have to get in the mindset that you are entitled to do it. I don't think you'll need any replies, but I'm the same though, I always think that I would never be articulate enough in the moment to defend myself. A simple "cock off" will do grin


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